My girl kissed a friend of her when she was drunk ? definately she wanted to .. and she was a part of it.
that was before me and her got into a relationship.
he is her classmate right now, and sometimes they both talk to each other. should i mind.
because as per my thinking i don't see any difference between kissing when u are drunk and having one night stand when u are drunk...
m i overreacting..
2006-11-21 18:55:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No your not over reacting... follow your heart....
2006-11-21 18:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by Shashank B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you have every right to mind, I would mind. Obviously if they still talk, it was not a regrettable drunk kiss as it is said to be. If you really love her, then do not allow her to spend anymore time getting to know this guy, they could make something of that kiss. My husband and I had this rule that we would not talk to anyone we had ever messed around with before we had gotten together. Maybe you could tell her that it bothers you, see how much letting this guy go matters to her; if he doesn't mean anything to her then she will give him up if she cares about you and your feelings about the situation. Maybe if she puts up a fight about not letting go of this other guy, maybe you will then see that the kiss was more than it is said to have been.
2006-11-21 19:06:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would end it. How could you ever trust him out with his friends again? They would be no more girl/guy nights..you'd be scared he would get drunk and call someone. When you are drunk, i think everyone know the truth comes out. If you can't handle yourself when you are drunk I don't really think you are relationship ready. I am married though so its prob. different if it was some little fling.
2016-03-29 05:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you're definately over reacting. A lot of people get extra worked up n excited wen they drink..n thats what probably happened to her and anyways that was before she was with u..so now try to trust her coz she's devoted to u.. she probably juz considers that guy a normal casual friend and its ok i c no harm in her talking to him.Dont be so insecure.Be more sure of yourself and if u really have that much of problem ask ur girl to keep it strictly formal wid that guy.Simple!
2006-11-21 19:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by ankita s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say because, someone once told me thay your true feelings come out when your drunk. If you notice changes between them then yes I would be worried. If not then I would turn the other way. Shrugg it off and FORGET ABOUT IT!!!!!
2006-11-21 19:11:16 · answer #5 · answered by Gilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was before you two got into a relationship not now, so dont worry too much. If she does anything like that now (when she is in relationship with you) then better let her go.
2006-11-21 19:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by funnysam2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be concerned not overreaacting. but the question is was he drunk when they kissed because if he wasnt that means he likes her and probably tried to take advantage of her
2006-11-21 19:02:14 · answer #7 · answered by ghetto fabolous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound overly jealous. You weren't even with her when that happened. It's not like they were crazy in love or anything, things happen that normally wouldn't when you drink. If you don't trust her why are you with her?
2006-11-21 18:59:22 · answer #8 · answered by Ce Ce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, thats why drinking is bad for you. You do things that you are not supposed to when you are drunk.
2006-11-21 18:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust No One but Yourself.
2006-11-21 18:57:39 · answer #10 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u are overreacting....
Dont be so suspicious...
If u love sombody u have to trust them too
2006-11-21 19:01:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋