Guys, when you are having sex with a girl do you ever picture that you are having sex with another girl instead, such as an ex-girlfriend?
My ex-boyfriend and I only dated for a month, he was my first bf while he was older and more experienced than me. We never went past kissing cuz he knew that I wanna save sex for marriage. The thing is he still says hi to me on msn even though HE ended it 8 months ago! and I saw him a few days ago on the street and he said he wants me to contact him so we can hang out.
I assume that he has slept with other girls after he ended our relationship, now how possible is it that while having sex he was imagining that he was having sex with me a beautiful virgin that he never got to sleep with? haha
2006-11-21 18:50:03 · 11 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
one time i was having sex and it was really boring so i pictured it was my ex and got turned on. only did it once.
2006-11-21 18:52:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with him fantasizing? Like you never fantasized about being with a movie or TV star when you were intimate or hanging out with your boyfriend? My gf and I went to see Casino Royale, and it wasn't until later that she told me that she found Daniel Craig hot. I don't mind at all, because I'M (all caps) the guy she's going home with at night and f***ing. I know I'm not perfect and I make mistakes. Heck, even now I'm unemployed, without a car, living at home with my parents, 33 years old, and doing everything I can to get back on my feet, yet she still calls me and we always tell each other that we love each other. How is this related to fantasizing? Despite the issues on my end, she's still as passionate with me like the first time we made out. So, if she fantasizes about Daniel Craig while being intimate with me, chances are she's gonna be more hardcore and into it than normal.
Sometimes it helps us guys fantasize, gives us different ideas. When you're masturbating too, who's gonna know? What's important is that when your guy fantasizes, realize that he's with you and not some dolled up hooker that resembles his fantasy woman.
2006-11-21 19:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by Eric B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever gets you through the nite.. yep he definitely is thinking that. or was he thinking about an ex while kissing you???
2006-11-21 19:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by setter505 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never had to fantasize, have always had beautiful women
don't know about your boyfriend you guys weren't really together that long to expect all that, even if you are humble
2006-11-21 18:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by jawtar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible but if he cant wait to have sex then he is either going to leave you again or cheat on you ... ALOT sorry hes not worth your time
2006-11-21 18:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he do that? I think he would enjoy what he has on his plate at the moment!
2006-11-21 18:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, past is past..
i have a bad past relationships so i don't wanna think about it..
2006-11-21 18:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by ritziyap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he wasted his time with You.
2006-11-21 18:53:41 · answer #8 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, com'on. for crying out loud!! lol
2006-11-21 18:55:52 · answer #9 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe....but i doubt it....ha ha
2006-11-21 18:53:18 · answer #10 · answered by glduke2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋