It doesnt sound like he likes me anymore. Ive been told to just call, and ask. Or to keep my options open, but to hold on. What do you think? Ive liked this guy since the 6th grade and Im in the 8th now. Is that long enough? My head says yes...but apparently my heart disagrees. What should I do?
2006-11-21 18:44:28 · 12 answers · asked by Lydia anne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow - that is a tough question.
If the two of you are still close, I'd just ask outright, but be prepared a bit of heart break if the answer is no...
You're at a really difficult time in life (I remember it...) and just recognizing that your head and heart are disagreeing is pretty impressive - I don't think I was that mature back then.
Asking outright gives you a quick resolution to your dilemma.
Keeping your options open, but maintaining some display of affection (holding on) may drag out the pain.
If your head says move on... then you probably should - your heart will move on eventually as well, and you'll certainly find someone else, even if it doesn't feel like it now... (sounds sooooooo cliched...)
Good luck,
-dh
2006-11-21 18:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should invest your time in other things. Your what?...13? 14?. In any event your too young to be so serious about a guy. I'm not saying your not supposed to be thinking about or liking guys because that is apart of being a teenager and it is expected. But just don't get soo serious to where your stressing your self about boy problems. Believe that time will come, and it's no luxury..enjoy being a child while you can, minus the adult characteristics.
2006-11-21 18:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by StormyRain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8th grade is way too young to be stressing yourself out over a boy, hon. There's enough drama in relationships when your older. I'd talk to this boy, see what he thinks is going on. Even if he isn't interested in a relationship right now, try to keep his friendship. Maybe as you both get older, you'll get closer again. On the other hand, maybe not, so don't sit by the phone mooning over him. Get out there and enjoy your life. Maybe you'll find a boy you like better........but don't rush into anything.
2006-11-21 18:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him why he fell in love with you in the first place. tell him you love him.show him that their is still love in your heart.also, just ask him do you still have thee same feelings for me that u had for me in 6th grade and depending on his answer it can change the whole situation...the point is if he says no it may hurt,but you r just going to have to move on.That's life and even the people that u love u let go.....you guys may still want to be friends. What you choose is your decision i am not persuading you on anything .good luck and a good gut is what mi great grandmother used to..o i miss her
2006-11-21 18:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by -- ^^SYDN3Y^^-- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always the heart that keeps us there but is it worth the heartache thats what you should be asking yourself if yes then by all means keep holding on but if you answer no then move on with your life you have so much more ahead of you if it was meant to be it will be
2006-11-21 18:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take him as he was, a stepping stone.
Find yourself someone who is interested in you now instead of trying to get this guy reinterested
2006-11-21 18:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by jawtar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my heart will go on and I...
get a moved on.
tell him you still have the feeling then move on... you will see. if he still likes you, he'll chase you...
trust me my girlfriend did this 2 times to me and i dii it 3 times to 2 of my ex in china. they still look for me even i moved to singapore already..
2006-11-21 19:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by haekal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to worry about this kind of stuff move on,
2006-11-21 18:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by mark r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u are too young. you are going to meet so many guys later on so just move on
2006-11-21 18:47:51 · answer #9 · answered by mzshady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your to young, let it go, its not love, your just infatuated, I bet he is popular, that why you like him
2006-11-21 18:47:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋