2006-11-21 18:15:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's ok to be Dominating and her submissive,but it's not ok to be a dick!
2006-11-21 18:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You mean maintaining control in not telling her she is fat, right? If you want her to get in shape and you really care for her, tell her she is on the heavier side and suggest things that she can do. When you are done with the advice, talk to her about other interesting things that make you both smile and laugh. That way she knows you cared enough to tell her to take care and at the same time she being fat is not in the way of you both being friends (or whatever relationship you people share). But never use words such as, 'fat', 'obese' and worse ones that makes them feel very bad. I don't know if this is what you are asking. Hope it helps. :-)
2006-11-22 02:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by happykat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maintain control? Are you retarded or just plain stupid? If your in a relationship with any one you should respect each other. Not try to manipulate or gain control of the other. You need therapy, lots, and lots of therapy. If you want control over something try to gain control over your own little and pathetic life. I hope your girlfriend leaves you!
2006-11-22 02:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by shadowkat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no good "games" to play in order to maintain control. Control equals emotional abuse, emotional abuse more often than not leads to physical abuse. No woman deserves to be abused, no woman deserves the likes of you.
2006-11-22 02:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about telling her she is beautiful and sexy and the most wonderful woman you could ever dream of having and how freakin STUPID she is to stay with you. Seriously why in the heck would you try to "control" her? Do you realise what you are doing is domestic abuse and is a felony?
2006-11-22 02:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by momofthreemiracles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Control is an illusion, but your mental illness is not. Seek Therapy immediately.
2006-11-22 02:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by Paul S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding right? Trying to get attention maybe? Manipulation is cute on "House" not in real life.
2006-11-22 02:19:37 · answer #7 · answered by intangible_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she is so ugly, and fat, that you never want to see her again! Maybe then she will realize that you a HUGE Loser!!
2006-11-22 02:18:34 · answer #8 · answered by serendipity_siren 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No help here, you sound like a control freak. §
2006-11-22 02:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by # one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need help pal a real man would never do a woman like that. my opion?
2006-11-22 02:21:22 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put down the spoon, fork, plate, cup
chicken bone, turkey bone, doggy bone
tell her something
it's call a diet......
2006-11-22 02:18:48 · answer #11 · answered by samatha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋