how can my boyfriend just hang up the phone and turn it off. im leaving tomorrow for a week and he was at my house tonight which is the last night he can see me before i leave and he just walked out the door and didnt even say bye. i walked out to his car before he pulled away and he told me he loved me and all that but i was crying and he just pulled away. i called him later and he just said stop crying and hung up the phone and turned it off. we've been together for 7 months. i dont get how guys can do this...
please dont respond to me like im a 13 year old. my boyfriend and i are both 19.
2006-11-21 16:08:48 · 10 answers · asked by »-(¯`v´¯)--»CHELSEA«- 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ive been in simular situation where this girl who Ive been with for almost 2 years and put so much effort in, texting me, telling me she never cared about me, saying I'm trash, pathetic, scum and that I should go kill myself. So you think you had it bad?? it hurts but you should move on to someone else and he would see what he lost. go out and have fun...dont think about him..
2006-11-21 17:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by ravinaznrich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys just get in their little moods sometimes...give him a bit of time to cool off and think about how he was acting...think back to before he left your house, was there anything that was said or done that may have caused him to act this way?...also there is the possibility that he's afraid you're going to find someone else in the one short week that you're gone...maybe just try talking to him on the phone after he's had a little time (even if it is while you're gone) see if you can find a reason and what you can do about it so this doesn't happen again.
2006-11-22 00:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kati J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is scared that you might fall in love with another guy when you are gone. but that is not right he should have held you close and told you that he's gonna wait for you and he would have spent that last nighht with u you know what i mean right. how has your r/ship been since you hooked up and how did he take the news that u were leavin? if he chganged his attitude when he learnt that you were leaving then his immature or he just doesnt trust you.maybe he just doesnt know what to do and if that is the case maybe he felt like a part of himwas leaving with you and he didnt want you to see him crying over you.talk to him and dont stop trying to call him.most probably he's scared of loosing you and he doesnt know a better way of dealing with it so he figure that shutting you out will work. if you love each other fight for your love and show him that you will never leave him ( if thats the truth ). i was in the same situation at least he came to see you, he never came to see me, he never called but when i got back and went to see him so that we could talk he told me he was scared of loosing me and he didnt know what to do coz he couldn't stop me from going. and after that talk i understood him,some guys find it hard to express their emotions in front of their gals coz they think we'll think less of them but the secret is if you love him hang on, talk and reassure him that he can open up to u about anything.
if you love him help him deal with this
2006-11-22 00:27:46 · answer #3 · answered by valery p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him and find someone else that will talk to u when u r crying and need someone to talk to its not right for him to do that u i meanmy boyfriend tells me to stop crying b/c he will be back but that doesnt stop me from crying b/c he lives 300 miles from me and i see him once a month and if i ever need someone to talk to he is always there for me
2006-11-22 00:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a massive jerk. I'm sorry but you should know that you are worth more than that. You could find someone that treats you better. Thats terrible.
2006-11-22 00:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he's cheating on you or don't really love you at all. why else would he ignore you when he can see the tears rolling down your eyes? its time to get a new man.
2006-11-22 00:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You'll be fine in a few days. Go out with friends, spend time with your family and do stuff that you like.
2006-11-22 00:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by Evil Atheist Conspirator 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
heh hes just a Heartless women are addicted to them.
2006-11-22 00:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel.... my ex is a lot more heartless though, calling me a s**t, a b*tch, a whore.... i know how you feel..... big love for you =) hope you feel better =(
2006-11-22 01:49:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when I step on my cats tail (he is two) I tell him:
"I didn't feel anything"
2006-11-22 00:16:20 · answer #10 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋