Hey... I have already posted something about my last break up.... but.... i went back to my ex after we broke up like 10 times right... like, i keep taking him back because i love him so much right... but he's lied way to much....
i went down the street yesterday because i was looking for work because i left school (my second last year.. i had one left) and i saw him with another girl and one of his mates.... anyway, i went absolutely ballistic at him.... and then he sent me a text saying "im not with her anymore... its just me and (his mates name)" and then i looked up.. and not even 100 meters away there she was with him!!!! i mean, why lie if im standing right there... anyway... hes saying he still loves me but i know if we get back together ill never trust him... i need to know wat to do because i cant move on... i had a chance to kiss someone last night but i just turned away... i couldnt do it... how do i move on????
2006-11-21 16:00:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FIRST THING FIRST YOU NEED TO STOP GOING BACK
AND FORTH WITH THIS GUY, YOU CANT TRUST HIM SO
WHY ARE YOU PUTTING YOUR SELF THOUGH THIS.
UNTIL Y OU START TO LOOK AT THIS FOR WHAT IT
WORTH YOU WILL NEVER MOVE ON. TIME TO LET
HIM GO. SO THAT YOU CAN BE HAPPY.
2006-11-21 16:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to get over him unless you want to be on the rebound every time something goes wrong. about that kiss i guess you turned away because in your heart u felt like u were cheating on him and that it was wrong you really care about him it shows but does he care about you? if you want to move on,first tell him that this thing of him always lying to you has got you fed upo and you want out dnt let him manipulate you that he's gonna changer coz he would have already done that.
walk away and try hanging out with friends dont get into a r/ship soon coz it might interfere with your judgement about this other person give urself tyme to heal and to forget him then when you know you are over him u can move on
if you dnt get over him and u get in another r/ship, you will end up hurting this new guy for not being the same as your boyfie.
dont let him walk all over you if he wants that other chic fine i know theres someone out there who is ready to love you unconditionally if you only open your heart to new beginnings.
dnt let this guy even though you love him walk all over your feelings. the worst thing you can ever do to your self is go back to your ex coz chances are he'll never change if he hasnt and ask urself are u willing to go through all this all over again or are you just as impotant as he is let your wings soar and find new love
2006-11-21 16:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by valery p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on by taking him out of your life. Don't see him, don't accept calls from him, don't call him. No emails, no pages, no stalking, no nothing. If you take him out of your life, and make a "clean break" you will speed up the process of getting over him.
Do not date right away. Be comfortable with you, make some new girl friends, get a new hobby, whatever. Just be positive! When you love yourself for who you are, you won't think twice about letting that trash back into your life. You don't need that kind of constant drama, worry, and tension constantly weighing down on you.
You can do it! Good luck :)
2006-11-21 16:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by starryeyedhaze 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HOW do you move on? You just keep reminding yourself that there's no trust there. And you've already broken up several times because of it. Now it's just a matter of STAYING broken up.
You've already had a relationship with this guy. You already know what it's like. Why not take this time as an opportunity to be with someone else, someone NEW who can make you happier.
2006-11-21 16:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well first of all. you have to leave him. i know you still have feelings for him and all. but this is not going to be a happy relationship. you can't ever trust him again because he's betrayed your trust for as many times as you've known. you need some time away from relationships. kind of like a reset. find and focus on something else important in your life. whether it be school, if you decide you want to return, or work, family. hang out with friends. they're the best remedy. they're always there to support you, listen to you, and hold your hand as you take the journey to heal your heart.
well to keep it short. give yourself time. that's what you need. find out what kind of relationship you want to be in before you start another one, so you won't end up hurting yourself. good luck.
2006-11-21 16:08:37 · answer #5 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I have this ex I broke up with about 3 years in the past. each once in a lengthy time period we party for a booty call. and anytime I leave feeling low-cost or perhaps extra in love. So i ultimately advised him that adequate replaced into adequate and that i wanted to resign or i ought to under no circumstances get over him. i'm nevertheless very a lot in love with him to at present, yet I have a sparkling boyfriend, who helps me no longer imagine about him widely used. Its a lengthy highway to getting over an ex you quite loved, yet seeing him back received't help, it is going to purely damage you extra.
2016-10-16 10:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta look at your life in the long term.
Right now it'll feel awful to leave him, you'll miss him and all those good things about him, but it's better than being with a LIAR and a CHEATER.
I know from experience.
You will recover from the experience of leaving him, you will be able to do it, and you will be soo much better off.
Praying strength for you.
2006-11-21 16:09:13 · answer #7 · answered by seaofcolour 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep remembering that he was with some other girl and remember him lying to you.it takes time but you will look back and realize you are better off without the hassle of him cheating and lying.you will meet someone better.just take it one day at a time and soon you will meet somebody who treats you right.i think mabey he assumes you will forgive him and go back to him since you did so many times before.that is him taking you forgranted and thinking that you are always going to be there.just remember that ex is the middle of next.
2006-11-21 16:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by stealthmodel17404 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this jerk sounds like a total 2 timing pig!
forget him!
you deserve better, way better...you sound like a really nice sweet girl and he is taking advantage of you, think of what he is trying to do and how cool he thinks he is doing it when he is really a pig! then think about it, every time yall get together he does the same thing right?should it be so hard to move on?
good luck!
2006-11-21 16:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you do not deserve a guy like that
i know it is so freaking hard to get over someone that you loved for so long. and if you do decide to move on completely and are having trouble focusing on your work because of him, then talk to to a therapist it actually helps you..
guys are not mature, and some guys are just plain stupid and you know that you deserve better!
2006-11-21 16:04:56 · answer #10 · answered by smoothie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋