I have been seeing this guy for 8 months and we get along very well but we seem to be arguing alot lately...I love him to death but We just cant seem to make it. We have been broken up for 3 weeks and just a few days ago we started talking about getting together. The fire is still there but we started to argue again....what should I do?? I really do want to be with him, should I give him a second chance or move on with my life?
2006-11-21 14:58:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's hard to be without someone, but the ultimate desire of having someone around is to be happy. People will argue. It's when the arguing becomes daily and becomes louder. If the arguing is something that can't be resolved by making a few minor changes in whatever is causing the disputes, I say get on with your life and try to salvage a friendship out of it.
2006-11-21 15:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by X_YELLOWJACKET_X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him or just lust for him?? In 8 months I do not think you know him well enough to know anything more than lust.
Find someone else and take it slowly. You should be good friends and enjoy doing things together and I do not mean jumping into bed together. Once you find you have things in common then you can start to plan with a future with the person. You must be able to get along in all aspects of life to make a life together.
2006-11-21 15:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by Molly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everybody disagrees from time to time. What type of things do you find yourselves arguing about? Is it the same thing over and over? Or just petty stuff? If it is the same issue time and time again, either someone or both of you have to agree to change it, or it just isn't going to work. If its petty stuff...is it just lack of communication? or someone blowing things out of proportion? I guess just take a look at what is really causing you two to fight so much..if its correctable then do something about it...if nobody is willing to "change it"...then better to move on. Fighting all the time isn't fun.
2006-11-21 15:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by Renee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're argueing in the middle of trying to make up from argueing, exactly what is it you want from this relationship? If everything starts out "If only you would..." You need to let him go because you don't love him, you love what you want him to be, and you're going to keep arguing.
2006-11-21 15:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in relationships,it is either one shuts up whiles the other lashes out or the two of argue and fight .If u love him then u've got to make it work because i don't think he will shut up for you to lash at him.No way!Sort out your differences and mend it.
Sometimes,argument is one of the signs of a broken down relationship.Search your heart to see if you are really in love or it is just some infatuation.You may be in love with his looks or some thing else just figure out...(it's not a guarantee but it's worth trying).Good luck
2006-11-21 15:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by Phy A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldent trust me 100% of this but dont give him a second chance until he feels the pain of being rejected. He WILL learn his lesson.
2006-11-21 15:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by akjgo94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 3 wks. apart you would think that the romance cycle would start again. Since it didn't I would have to say goodbye.
2006-11-21 15:05:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the time to figure out that he should be dating someone else.
2006-11-21 15:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be friends. to date him is to have another fight. i think both of you would be better friends than lovers.
2006-11-21 15:06:38 · answer #9 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋