She wouldnt experiment and anal sounded interesting so i found someone wackier. I was at my apartment and she walked in on me and this little asian chick in the middle of some pretty sick stuff.(cuffs, anal and the girl as me and my girlfriend discovered, was a screamer) I wasnt serious about the girl, she just was really.... cute and she was just all over me. Every time i try to apologize she just starts crying, we have classes together and its just akward now because we havent exactly broken up yet and she says she still wants me. What should i do?
2006-11-21 14:56:52 · 31 answers · asked by john d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stay with the asian chick
2006-11-21 14:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by Chrissy 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I have something to add......BUTT it seems riDICKulous to POINT out the obvious to you since you seem so oblivious to what you have done. I think this is a scam! First of all, what whack job leaves their door open when BUTT f-ing someone while shackled? Don't you know anything? Its not even believeable, because even if she had a key, why wouldn't you have heard her? I guess the screams had your ears ringing I suppose? Well my dear, you know what they say, THEY SAY IF YOU PLAY YOU MUST PAY. Put a period on it and move on, your gf deserves better than you anyways. Anyone who'd be looking for someone WACKIER just to get some ANAL got what they deserved, their BUTT on the F-ing curb. Pull up your pants and go home. Screamer or no screamer, you'll only find someone else when you feel like oral, like upside down from a chandelier, when she's preggers and so on....the list won't ever stop for you!
2006-11-21 15:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly you were in the wrong to cheat on her in the first place. You should never be involved in a relationship based on just sex and you definately should not cheat on a lover just because they are not willing to put out yet or experience these crazy sexual escapades that you are into. Honestly, you mucked up dude and if I were you I would just break the whole thing off cause you don't love this girl to begin with cause if you did, you would've never cheated on her to start wit and you would've cared and respected her feelings about not wanting to experiment with certain things. C'mon man have some dignity, swallow what pride you have left and seriously dude grow up already or you will never get married. Ditch her and move on but next time don't be so stupid or selfish to her needs.
2006-11-21 15:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by daddyslittleman 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all you were wrong ...how would you have felt if she had done that to you. Now apparently you dont really care about your girlfriend or you would not have done that so end the relationshio cause you will never be able to live this down and she will never fully trust you again. Let her find someone who could care for her as she does them. Set her free it might hurt her at first but she will be better off with someone who wont cheat on and lie to her.
2006-11-21 15:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by naomihank 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess if you were going to do something like this again, you had better make sure that your door was more secure. Or else break up with your girlfriend first. Next time be more careful. If I was your girlfriend, I would be having second thoughts about you.
2006-11-21 15:01:19 · answer #5 · answered by winona e 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're so screwed. She's never going to trust you again. You'll argue about this for the rest of your life. Your life will become hell if you remain with her. My advice stay on your own (or keep the asian girl on the side).
2006-11-21 15:02:31 · answer #6 · answered by KelFrances 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're just kids...What you've done is detrimental to a young ladies life especially if you're her first...I suggest you be gentle with her and take things either in her speed or move on...There's no room in a relationship for games...
2006-11-21 15:01:47 · answer #7 · answered by $&$& 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She either needs to forgive and forget or move on. I know that sounds cruel, but the relationship will never work if she doesn't forgive you. You guys should probably try to talk in private. My husband cheated on me for similar reasons and we got back together.. so its not impossible to make it work. Just remember.. you are the one who did her wrong .. not the other way around..
2006-11-21 15:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by Kristen M 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you kidding? This is all your fault. Next time when you what to "experiment" with sex, at least break up with the girl so you won't comepletly crush her. What is your problem dude?
2006-11-21 15:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not give her time to think. Apologize and make sure you are true to your word. If she really loves you she will realize things on her own.
2006-11-21 15:00:06 · answer #10 · answered by Papabear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until someone does the same to your girlfriend."What goes round comes round."
you still can't still figure out what you should do?apologize,of course! you said that ,"i try to apologize....." that means you haven't,man,put off your pride and apologize.She's hurt but she still wants you.I'm just being fair.
2006-11-21 15:02:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋