I have a 8 month old son and his daddy has never even seen him. I can't help it I hate him! Why should my son ever have to suffer cuz he's a piece of ****. They don't know what there missing.
2006-11-21 14:39:58 · 10 answers · asked by ellorra25 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Although he left you should remember one thing that this guy(cant refer to him as a man) helped in making this wonderful child of yours. You are very right they dont know what they are missing so in turn they are the ones that will suffer and not your child because they are going to miss out and your child will become stronger and possibly not do it when they have children. Just remember anyone can be a father but it takes a man to be a daddy. You dont need him to make your childs life complete you can make your childs life complete all on your own. Maybe one day you will meet a MAN that will love you and your son. Hold your head up it will get better.
2006-11-21 14:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That says a lot about you. You chose that piece of sh*t when you decided to have sex with him, without any protection...without taking responsibility for your own actions. So you're not taking any blame for your poor decisions. First, the one you made when you chose the piece of sh*t, second, when you got pregnant. Stupid, Stupid, Stupid little victim. Fess up and change your life or this will happen to you over and over again. Look in the mirror and stop hating what you see. Until you do this, your hate will manifest itself into another series of bad decisions.
2006-11-21 18:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by Logicnreason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have two kids with the same guy...he was in my daughters life until she was 6 months old and then moved to texas....i was 3 month pregnant with my son then also...he came up for the birth..and then he saw my son and daughter when we were in seattle for my sons surgery...my son has a lot of medical problems and he isnt even calling anymore because his girlfriend doesnt want him to have anything to do with me....so because of that he doesnt really call or answer my calls...he doesnt know what he is missing but that is ok...i am taking care of my kids and they dont need someone that doesnt want them...hate is a strong word though....he just needs to grow up...my kids dont need his influence in their live so i am glad he isnt around...by the way he does have another kid that is 5 and he doesnt know him either...my kids are now 17 months and 5 months old...it is sad but it is his loss
2006-11-21 16:44:38 · answer #3 · answered by shell bell 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My sister's oldest has never met his father. He is now 14 years old. It is rather sad, but it is not my sister's doing.
My sister truly hates the father of her oldest son, but in front of her son, she does not badmouth him, and she answers any questions that her son has about his father. That only makes my sister look better in her son's eyes, and she is taking the "high road", even if the guy (my mother so kindly refers to him as "the sperm doner") doesn't know it or see it.
My nephew is a wonderful guy - he is nice looking, smart (tested into advanced classes, and is taking college prep courses at 14), and a whiz with things. He is funny, and he loves sports. He loves his little cousin (my daughter), and he is a great older brother (even if they fight from time to time). All of this his "father" is missing out on. But that was his choice, and that is that. So he is missing out, and that is fine by my nephew. He has chosen not to find him, and does not ever want to speak to him. So his "father" loses out. My nephew is doing fine, and has great "male role models" in his step father, his grandfather, and my husband. Matter of fact, my husband regularly takes him out for a "guy's day", where they do things that is just for the guys. I don't think that my nephew suffers.
Now, I would not advise keeping your son from his dad, because in the end, you will be the loser in that one. But if the dad doesn't take the steps to be involved in his son's life, I wouldn't make him do that, either. It is dad's choice, but he will be the loser in the end.
Good luck with everything!!!
2006-11-21 15:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by volleyballchick (cowards block) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They don't care what they're missing either. Don't waste your energy on him. Build a life for you and your baby and find someone ready to settle down.
PS- don't forget the child support!
2006-11-21 14:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
MY BABY DADDY WALKED OUT BEFORE SHE WAS BORN, SHE IS ALMOST 8, I HATED HIM VERY MUCH, JUST THE OTHER DAY HE CALLED AND WANTS TO SEE HER, I DONT KNOW YOUR AGE BUT YEAH THEY DON'T KNOW WHAT THERE ARE MISSING
2006-11-21 14:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by jlw78418 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i dont hate him, but i do think he's a loser. tried for years to get him closer to the kids and to be a normal dad, but no he chose drugs over his kids, so in turn he'll never see them again. i dont need my kids learning to be junkies from his pathetic loser self. *shrugs*
2006-11-21 15:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by nanabooboo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lissa, you chose him.
Get over it.
2006-11-21 19:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
what an ***hole
2006-11-21 15:23:20 · answer #9 · answered by Gracie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok.
2006-11-21 14:47:27 · answer #10 · answered by mikesheppard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋