Where is the best place to meet a decent guy?

Question

Where is a good place to go where people will actually feel comfortable socializing, besides in a bar, bc that is not the type i want to find? Also what is a good way to start a real conversation with a stranger and keep them interested?

Answer 1

i am a firm believer in "it just happens". you don't go looking for it.
you just take what is in your life (what god gives you)...and go from there.

if you don't force it....it will come. you have a lifetime to prove me wrong on this :)

Answer 2

Where are the good guys hiding? I'm thinking Britain. I don't know where you are, but I've heard British men think a bit differently than American men. If you would like an American men, I suggest you look in colleges, universities. Take a walk over at a University. Most of the decent guys are professional and are already trying to be something.

Answer 3

The first part of your question: The best place to meet is "anywhere" and spontaneously--magically. However, that doesn't always happen. So, try joining an activity or club that YOU like. Don't pick something just because you think men will be there (like a hunting club, for instance). Try an art class, a book club, a car club, cycling, jogging, creative writing class, join a gym, go to bookstores and sit and read an interesting book. Try an electronics store and ask someone a quick question. Men like to show off their knowledge of tv's and stereos. You may even try online dating sites. Just remember safety! The second part of the question: Give a sincere compliment. Don't go overboard, just say "Hey, nice t-shirt! That's a clever cartoon." or "Is that your car? I have always liked convertibles." Nothing too lengthy or too personal.

Answer 4

the best two relationships i have every had started on an internet chat line.. we met on a chat line that was on the theme of music.. our common interest in music was a great way to start the conversation going back and forth. eventually, we branched out into other topics and got to know each other better..

it's good to find a topic of common interest.. great way to break the ice with a new person and keep the conversation flowing..

if you're not into bars, try to find another place to meet guys with common interest.. internet chatline, the gym, church, all sorts of different places you could look.

Answer 5

Church is a good place to find a guy. Also just say hi and have small talk getting to know the guy. What his name is? How long has he lived in the area? Good luck! Find out what you have in common.

Answer 6

Join a gym and you will meet people who are interested in being healthy. Go to dances to meet people who like to dance. Go to sports games to meet people interested in sports. Go to church and join some of the clubs there to meet people who are interested in the church.

To find people who are interested in things you like go out to those places and the people will be there that like those things.

Answer 7

The wife and I met in a bowling alley. As luck would have it, a bowling alley seems to be the kind of place you are looking for. Give it a try.

Answer 8

Go to a intellectualy or spiritualy stimulating place like a museum or volunteer service. You'll meet great ppl there.

Answer 9

well i like the foodcourt and outside the muovies and things like that in a dude so that its my answers.and tto breack the ice im not good at that but i will like to girl just sit there and say s'up or something like that or something like that.

Answer 10

i think a bookstore is a good place such as borders or such if you are going for the intellectual type