My sister-in-law was admitted to the hospital for pneumonia. She said her primary care doctor told her she had cancer in her neck and all over her chest. I thought she had taken the story and blown it up. Now I don't think so. The situation looks so grim and I'm sad and feel so guilty for the things I thought. She has never been a very happy person and alway so stressed. Her daughter just had a baby girl today. I know how much she wanted to be there, but she is still in the hospital. They did a lung biopsy this morning. The cancer is in her lymph nodes, but it's not lymphoma and they are tryng to find out where it start from. It sounds like to me that it's not anything that they can cure or that will be in remission for long. I'm I wrong?
2006-11-21 14:27:33 · 6 answers · asked by michele_fct 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
sorry to say sounds like the same symptons my aunt had and she died 5 weeks later , my dad, 3 months after that biopsy , Be there for her and make peace with your guilt now . Pray for a miracle but be prepared for the worst . Sorry for my blunt honesty but I really think you should do every thing you can now to work off that guilt .
2006-11-21 14:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miracles are being worked with cancer patients everyday now. My friend's uncle has lung cancer that has spread throughout his body. They gave him 6 months to live and that was a year ago. I know another woman who has bone cancer and it was spread badly before they found it. She has been alive for 2-3 years since diagnosed. Even if it doesn't go into remission, the best thing to do is help her enjoy the time she has left. Help her to be happy even if it is just briefly. It is hard watching someone be ill. Especially if they are close to you. Good luck to you and her.
2006-11-21 22:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately only the doctors will be able to answer your questions. If she does make it out contact the Cancer treatment centers of America. I've heard they work wonders. God be with your family.
2006-11-21 22:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by Ofie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the best thing you can do is sit with her and let her know you're there for her. If it's not lymphoma, they'll be looking for a tumor somewhere in the body.
2006-11-21 22:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right or wrong now. At this moment she need care and love from the family. Try spending time with her, even when she is gone you will not leave in regret. May god bless you and your family.
2006-11-22 04:56:52 · answer #5 · answered by Airfox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the lady will not be with us long. My condolences to the family
2006-11-21 22:41:24 · answer #6 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋