Like about why he started to smoke and what made him do it. why do some guys avoid questions? And how do you get them to answer?
2006-11-21 14:23:26 · 9 answers · asked by *mxgirl115* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
woah.. i guess it's the way u ask babe... it's true that i avoid questions... but if u ask in the right manner, i believe he would tell u truthfully... but.. somethings aren't meant to be shared or ask at all... (some issues)
eg.. your BF smokes...
1. he might be influenced by his pals
- he dun wanna tell u.. fearing that u would make a fuss
- he dun wanna tell u.. fearing that u will be upset and break up with him...
2. he might be stress by some personal issues
- he wanna keep it to himself as he dun wanna drag u into the picture..
sometime, u gotta give your guy some space... it's a guy thing.. it's like gal's period... it comes once a month thing... chech out the book which i wrote in my source... it helps A LOT...
2006-11-21 14:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by Nitesky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he start smoking while you all were together or before your relationship? If it was before your relationship, Don't ask. He'll tell you on his own. If he started since you've been dating then I would be a little concerned. Have you recently had problems? Does he feel like you nag him about this issue? Does he have other family problems? Maybe he doesn't want to answer because he doesn't think he has a good reason. If you love him, trust him. If you think he's done something wrong and has picked up this habit as a way to calm his nerves, then wait it out. If he loves you and trusts you, he will come to you and tell you what's going on.
2006-11-21 22:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by X_YELLOWJACKET_X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not a fan of questions, myself. Until I get to know someone very well, there is a lot I will not disclose. Give him sometime to open up, with no pressure. Then If he still won't come around, chances are, he's debating the relationship, and you should move on!
2006-11-21 22:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by Aces 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they avoid them cause there afraid to deal with the truth and if the guy really trust you then he might answer
2006-11-21 22:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by kimgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They avoid them because they feel guilty and they will answer them when they are ready.
2006-11-21 22:25:53 · answer #5 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't get the answers to questions you think are important maybe you should reevaluate your relationship.
2006-11-21 22:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it makes him feel uneasy, and give him time let him tell you on his own terms
2006-11-21 22:26:57 · answer #7 · answered by mastermind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I refuse to answer that.
2006-11-21 22:26:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does it because he's male.
2006-11-21 22:26:50 · answer #9 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋