Me and this guy have been friends for almost a year. We met at our job. We no longer work together but we go to the same college. We've kept in contact even though we don't get to see each other every day. Our relationship has always been really flirtatious and lately we've been planning to hang out and basically make out but we never do it because i always find an excuse to not let him come over. We both are mutual that we don't want anything more than a physical relationship along with our really good friendship. However, i'm still hesistant to cross that "friend" line. Why am i so scared? I've tried to think about all the possibilities..however, i think i'm scared i'll physically go farther with him than i plan. what do you guys think? I know it sounds juvenile but i'm just curious to others opinions. thanks
2006-11-21 14:20:28 · 5 answers · asked by ALeoStar 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU ARE SCARED OF ME THE BEAST!
2006-11-21 14:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by THE BEAST 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were in your position, I would be afraid of what crossing that line might ultimately do to the friendship. Only you know this relationship and what's best for you. But I'm a strong believer in going with your gut. If you're scared, maybe you should reconsider this choice.
2006-11-21 22:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making out only intensifies feelings and that will lead to sex whether you planned for it or not. Plus, once your cross the line there is no going back and you will end up just being another booty call.
2006-11-21 22:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am scared of alot of things.like people dien and spiders snakes bats and alot of things i am also scared in school someone might start a rumor about me and even though i didnt do anything,.i hear stuff about that all the time like katy didnt do her push ups right or this one kid in 8th grade smokin but even though it is true i saw him smoke =i am afraid my parents are goin to get deforced of somethin thanks for listin to me and sometimes i am scared tha t people say stuff about my bff like mel or someone that is so nice but no one gets the time to hang out with her and u should never base a book on its cover i always say that well bye
2006-11-21 22:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right,100 %,right.
2006-11-21 22:59:09 · answer #5 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋