When I was 13 I was with I a boy named Nick and we dated for almost three years. It was great until he started doing drugs and cheated on me, which broke my heart to peices. Just recentaly we started talking..and I went to see him. He held me and it felt so good..so right. We started making out and I did oral sex on him. He was saying my name and pulled my head up looked me in the eyes and said he loved me. When I left he said he loved me. The next day we started treating me like **** and now he won't even talk to me he told me to never speak to him again. He was supposed to ask his parents if I could come over the next day..but when I talked to his mother I found out he asked if a different girl could come. My heart is broken..once more and I'm having a very difficult time. I have bipolar,major depression disorder,skitzophrenia,and multiple personality disorder. I see a theropist every week. I've called every help line. I want to die Is there a painless way to commit suicide? Help Plz
2006-11-21 13:59:38 · 15 answers · asked by EmptySoul 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
No guy is worth your life. He is an a s s hole and was just using you. There are plenty of other men out there. Unfortunately as the saying goes love hurts, but you will find the right guy. As far as a painless way to die...There is not one. I have been in the medical field for 11yrs all methods will cause pain even briefly. Pills are probably the most painful as they don't kill right away and can cause excruciating abdominal pain and vomiting. Just move on sweetheart life does and will go on.
2006-11-21 14:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
EmptySoul, my heart goes out to you. I have the same illness you have to deal with and I know how difficult it can be. We feel things so deeply. I do have a couple recommendations, things that have helped me immensely.
Find a book called "These Painted Wings." It is a story of recovery by a woman who also has bipolar disorder. You can find it at www.thesepaintedwings.com
Go to the website at www.truehope.com and sign up as a 'participant.' This does NOT mean you have to buy what is sold there, but it give you access to message boards where you can talk. Start researching the product called Empowerplus. This product (no I don't sell it or make any money off it) has both saved and completely changed my life and it has done the same for many, many other people. You can actually get a Doctor's Package from Teresa at Truehope to share with your therapist.
In answer to your last question, no there is not a painless way to commit suicide. I'm an expert on the subject, tried several times. The good thing is I was spared and today life is more beautiful than I ever could have imagined. I believe it will be the same for you if you hang in there long enough to find what will work for you.
I'll be keeping you in my prayers; you deserve to live and to feel good. You are a beautiful child of God. That young man may be treating you like junk, but you are not junk, and you deserve to live and find happiness.
2006-11-21 14:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by Samslou 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you've heard this one before, but here goes....suicide is a pemanent solution to a temporary problem. This guy could 've been acting the way he did for a lot of different reasons. Maybe he really likes you and is afraid of his feelings, or maybe he was just trying to get the milk for free. His reasons don't matter, his actions show he's really messed up, move on. He's obviously not your soul mate. What happens when your soul mate does come along and you're not there to greet him 'cuz you 'did' yourself over this passing ship? You really do have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your Prince
You may not be able to make the pain any better now ,but grow through it, feel it, so that you can compare it to and appreciate the good feeling you will have when you meet a guy who's not such a jerk. This guy is just a learning experience to prepare you for a better frog.
A suicide attempt in itself can make your life much worse. So, if it's that bad,follow everyone's advice and make the call to the hospital
2006-11-21 14:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by fbbfh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHENEVER Richard Cory went down town,
We people on the pavement looked at him:
He was a gentleman from sole to crown,
Clean favored, and imperially slim.
And he was always quietly arrayed, 5
And he was always human when he talked;
But still he fluttered pulses when he said,
"Good-morning," and he glittered when he walked.
And he was rich—yes, richer than a king,
And admirably schooled in every grace: 10
In fine, we thought that he was everything
To make us wish that we were in his place.
So on we worked, and waited for the light,
And went without the meat, and cursed the bread;
And Richard Cory, one calm summer night, 15
Went home and put a bullet through his head.
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Depression is not a logical phenomenon, so anyone can get it. Its more about a bad habit like being antisocial that makes you sad
so you don't want to hang out with friends and get even more antisocial! Do you understand? Its painful to go on, but once you start going on again it gets much better.
If you kill yourself now, this will be all that your life ever was. You must feel like ****, although it has been your boyfriend's fault. After you have grieved a little, you should go and find a new boy who will want you for love as opposed to oral sex. You just need someone to hold you.
2006-11-21 14:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by Wise1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,
There are alot of things that you can and cannot change about yourself. The fact that you have depression and skitzophrenia and the other disorders, you cannot change, but the fact that you want to die. That can be changed. I have noticed that young people with these types of disorders have a tendency to focus on all the bad things and nothing good. Think about your family and how much they love you and all the other people that would do anything for you and that will make you want to continue to please those people. As far as the ex boyfriend goes, I have learned through many men that they are just one person and you lived a happy life for 13 years without him, what makes you think that you cant make it for another 13 years. I know you are a strong person, if you werent you would not even have the nerve to ask for help and I know because you did that, you can do anything... including not being with that jerk and continue to live a very happy and successful life. Prove to him and everyone that you will do good and go further than they ever imagined! good luck girl! I will pray for you!
2006-11-21 14:09:49 · answer #5 · answered by ElizabethT. 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
NO baby you do NOT want to die or you would not have asked this question!!!!!
People who want to die just go and jump under a train or truck and do it.
People who want to talk about it and let someboidy know they are thinking about it --are screaming for help.
If you are already seeing psychiatrist you must tell him--
not us.
We cannot help you.
Only a highly trained professional can. BUT ,believe me --if you wanted to die then you would be dead -and not sitting online here
asking us about it
You do not want to die --you just want the pain to stop.
And it will one day, but until then you have to do what the rest of us do when it all seems too much --- and hold on until it gets better. IT WILL
because as you are thinking--- it cannot get any worse.
2006-11-21 14:15:18 · answer #6 · answered by virginia o 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. There's no such thing as a painless death. No matter what way one could choose to die it would never be painless; it would hurt your friends and family so much because they love you and would terribly miss you if you died.
Keep on going to your therapist for help to get through the situation and things will get better in the end.
2006-11-21 14:07:50 · answer #7 · answered by ♥☺ bratiskim∞! ☺♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is not an option. It does not solve anything, but just makes matters worse because it destroys the ones who care about you. They will never get over it. Get things in perspective. You feel like the world is against you and there is no way out of that deep dark hole. I've been there exactly where you are. I made it through, by the grace of God, and His love. Pray, pray and pray for His help. He will answer you in His own way. So, listen with your heart for the answer.
This guy is not worth the agony you are putting yourself through. Believe me, your guy, the special one, is out there waiting for you. If you take your life, what will he do? If you cannot talk to a crisis line or therapist, go to a hospital emergency room. You need help with this. Don't think you have to go through it alone.
2006-11-21 14:14:01 · answer #8 · answered by RBRN 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
DO NOT kill yourself. I know your heart is broken, but it can be mended!! This is ONE PAGE in a chapter of your life. .. there are so many more pages to come!! And alot more chapters! Think of this. . .I also went through a HORRIBLE breakup similar to your situation. If I would've ended it when I was 16, my children wouldn't be here now. Don't deny yourself a wonderful life. Don't deny your husband a wife. (He's out there.) Don't deny your children a mother. There is a plan for you, this just isn't it.
xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
2006-11-21 14:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by misskenjr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen empty soul. If you feel extremely suicidal, get off your computer. Go to the emergency and tell them you think of harming yourself. You can't seriously ask a bunch of people to advice you on how to commit painless suicide. There is no such thing as painless suicide. Suicide is the worse thing you could do to yourself and the people who care for you. Go and seek help right now. Good luck.
2006-11-21 14:35:44 · answer #10 · answered by Lonelyplanet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋