Why is it guys seem to not view sex as a big step in their relationships?? Is that what you want from a girl when you ask her out?? Are you pressured by friends and that's why you don't see it as anything out of ur daily routine??
Just curious. I am a 5'1 95lb gymnast and all guys ever want in my relationships(as for my friends relationships too) is sex.
THANX!!
2006-11-21 13:56:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex is a NATURAL part of a relationship. However, if the guy REALLY LOVES you he will wait till he LOVES you before he will try to make love with you. If he is selfish then he will want sex as soon as he gets horney.
A lot of guys have a "thing" for gymnists. So, just be careful when finding the "right" guy. If you want to have fun (don't know how many you had) then have fun, if you ONLY want love then you need to find the way of determining that they REALLY love you or not. Just remember men are not as mature as women (sorry guys I have to admit it), and most men have sex drives leap years beyond women. It is natural.
But, if the guy REALLY loves the girl he is willing to put the breaks on the sex until the GIRL is READY!
Good luck. Take care!
2006-11-21 14:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by The Ultimate Nerd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys feel this way. Some guys really do view sex as a big step in a relationship. 5' 1", 95 lbs. and a gymnast... I bet you are stunning! I think that maybe you are attracted to and are dating the wrong guys. Be more selective... Date many different guys but do not sleep around... You will find the correct one or maybe you already have met the correct one and do not even recognize it...
2006-11-21 22:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by Todd Maz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we first start off with a girl yes sex is all we want. But if we are interested in the girl then we want more than just sex. We want her heart we wan to know every thing about her. But on the same token I've meet girls who cheated and dumped guys cause the sex wasn't good. At the end of the day "good" sex is what everyone wants. The difference is a Man is going to tell a lady what he wants up front and a boy is going to beat around bush.
2006-11-21 22:14:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't found the right guy! Sex is a huge step and not one to be taken lightly. You ever thought about telling them no until you're married. If they stick with you then they really want you not just what's down below..... Doesn't mean you have to stick with that, but just make them think that. If a girl sayed No not until were married then I would respect that and wouldn't push the issue. Keep searching, he's out there somewhere!
2006-11-21 22:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by chromecranium 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats because guys imagine gymnists can stretch their bodies in all kinds of positions during sex. But when a guy falls in love it becomes a big step. If he's not in love then it is just sex.
2006-11-21 22:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your seeing the wrong guys sweetheart, SERIOUSLY.
There are guys that it means something to, and actually want to build a relationship around something meaningful and lasting. I mean, what would most guys do if their d ick fell off anyway? Yep, so leave those chumps alone.
2006-11-21 22:02:38 · answer #6 · answered by Brandon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is like urinating to a man. It is just a bodily function. This is sad. I think someone had to have taught them that , probably other men. I hope someday it changes otherwise women are just letting men go to the toilet on them.
2006-11-21 22:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by janine b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's only some guys...many concead their feelings. But yes, you're right, a lot of them pressured sorta with that male "ego." But there's a lot of nice guys as well, who don't just want sex. =)
2006-11-21 22:00:02 · answer #8 · answered by Typical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that guys like sex because they are hormonal. I like sex and I think about it a lot and I'm not ashamed to admit it, though it is embarassing. I think that guys like it and they think about it a lot and some people aren't into it. But, you have to understand that it's your choice, not theirs so stand up for yourself if you don't want to do it.
2006-11-21 22:06:08 · answer #9 · answered by snowbaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, by your descript, one cannothelp maybe looking at you and think about playing sports. Obvuoisly the gynnist thing just adds to our creative sides that we want to investigate. It also depends on the "engery" you are exuding,..
2006-11-21 22:01:51 · answer #10 · answered by kerketay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋