I know I sound like the typical girl but our relationship stared off as friends and now it has evolved into more. I can't help the way I feel about him, he is my best friend and that is what I really don't want to lose is his friendship but my heart keeps telling my I want him as my own. What do I do?
2006-11-21 13:54:19 · 9 answers · asked by Sexy T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
fffff.... I've stayed friends for years and years with guys without becoming bf-gf. you shouldn't fool around wtih him, though, if that is what you are saying by "more." but if you are just saying you are kind of in love with him, then that can go on for years. there is some level of "attraction" between friends as well as lovers/bf's.
2006-11-21 16:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by ♥perishedmemories♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted you, then he'd leave the other girl. Since he isn't leaving the other girl, he doesn't love you in return. It's as simple as that.
You need to stop being his fool and find someone who does want you all for himself---alone. It's not fair to you or the other woman that he's cheating on her with you (or he might shortly).
If nothing has happened yet, keep your distance. What happens if the "fling" between you and him ends and they end up back together again? You'll be blamed as the cause of all their problems and it could get ugly. Stay out of it and let things stay its own course. If it was meant to be then it'll happen, and if not, then it's best that you didn't ruin someone else's relationship.
Love never comes from selfish actions. Lust can, but never love.
2006-11-21 14:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'm really sorry to say this because I know it's hard, but you should end the relationship.
First, it's wrong to be involved with someone else's boyfriend.
Second, you'll never really be happy with someone who is only half yours.
Third, if he's cheating on someone he is supposedly in love with, how good of a guy can he be and how could you trust him to be faithful to you even if he became yours?
Break it off and find yourself a man who will love only you!
2006-11-21 13:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your best friend then you should be strong and stay friends....just friends......or you will miss out on a good friendship. But if you think you are not strong enough to watch him with another girl day in, day out then maybe you should back off. I dont think you should stop seeing him altogether, coz what if they break up. You could be there to pick up the pieces of you 'friends' broken heart. Really its up to you and whether his frienship is worth the pain.
2006-11-21 14:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by AussieHel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know what? I let my best friend / dream lover go all the way to marriage with somebody else (looking miserable every step of the way) because I was too proud to spell it out for him that I wanted him myself. You gotta tell him, girl. None of you will be happy if you don't.
2006-11-21 14:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, first he'll do to you what he's doing to her. Second you'll lose a good friend. Take the friend, forget the heart break.
2006-11-21 14:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop seeing him keep the friendship if he wants you as much as you want him he will end he other thing and work on your relationship good luck with that
2006-11-21 14:00:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I would because he does have a right to date two people
2006-11-21 13:58:22 · answer #8 · answered by alie* 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he is not willing to be with you and only you, you dont need him. good luck.
2006-11-21 16:10:04 · answer #9 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋