I do not even wear tight fitting clothing. Mostly jeans, a T-shirt, and a sweater (because it is pretty cold here), and my hair is in a bun. But on my way home, I get so creeped out because men stop their cars infront of me, blah blah, and it can be pretty creepy for a High School student. I do not get it, I do not dress like a skank or anything. And I went to the mall today, and I was wearing a dress, and this guy calls out: "Oh girl! The way you walk!" Is it the way I walk or something? Because I do not like being gawked at 24/7. I can never leave the house without feeling paranoid.
2006-11-21 13:50:40 · 27 answers · asked by Ohay 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not trying to sound better than most women, but it happens more to me than other women that I know. I get stalked, cars stop infront of me and stalk me, etc. So NO, This does not happen to EVERYONE. The main point is that it freaks me out.
2006-11-21 13:55:09 · update #1
It probably is the way that you walk. I have had that problem too, been stalked twice (that I know of), been harassed by every guy at work, malls, stores, and hated by every woman I meet, etc. I have been told that I have slinky walk what the hell is that and people have actually asked me "Is that your real walk?" But I bet that is why. Or do you have large boobs. I have big boobs and I think guys automatically think that a girl with a C+ cup is a hoe
2006-11-21 14:04:00 · answer #1 · answered by Sugar Plum Fairy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Feel good in the knowledge that you must be one hot young lady, but don't waste your time on something you can't control. Just remember when it comes to a relationship, look beneath the surface and see a person for who they truely are - and others are right, most men are pigs, its the nature of us and not all can control themselves. At most come up with a remark to shut them down and ignore the rest, you're better than that so don't stoop. You should feel free to wear what you like but even if you aren't wearing trollop clothing and men still gawk, you must be hot, so take it as a compliment on the inside but shut them down and humiliate them on the outside. :-)
2006-11-21 13:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by geronemo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some men are just visual creatures, lol they love to look and think they have a chance with a young pretty girl if they stop there cars, this is very dangerous so please take care.
Don't let these sleazy men make you paranoid to go out, just be careful of your surroundings, and try to ignore them. Don't look at them in the eyes, if they call out don't turn around once again just ignore them,
But remember don't let them over this fear over you, You are entitled to wear what ever you want and go where ever you want..But yes some men and I mean some are really PIGS
2006-11-21 13:58:13 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany B 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because the order of nature is like this: Humans are child factories. Men always have something telling them that women are particularly good for reproduction. I'm sorry, but that's how things are. I've found this to be kind of annoying how the guys cat-call and wolf-whistle at the more attractive girls knowing that the girls really don't want to be bugged, especially when it's a group of guys who listen to rap hiphophup and r&b. They are the only ones dumb enough to do stupid crap like that around their friends. When they are by themsel;ves, though, they don't do it. It's kind of a peer pressure thing, sort of, as well.
2006-11-21 13:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by Cold Fart 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get a jacket and other loose fitting clothings.
Don't wear jeans, T-shirt, sweater, and so on unless you got a jacket and other loose fitting clothings to cover them.
And also wear a hat or other head covering (like a helmet).
If all failed, then try the link below. It's usually used by prostitutes to cover themself from non-clients, Tamar disguise this way and then was unknownly picked up by her father-in-law. You can choose to show your face to show your identity, and to stop the police asking you questions.
2006-11-21 14:16:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are men. Some women are lovely and would look sexy in a bathrobe and curlers!
Dress modestly and realize that it doesn't matter 'cause men think with their little head, not their big one. And the littler the head, the more they pretend to be macho and all that.
One more thing: PEPPER SPRAY.... just in case anyone does more than gawk from a distance.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-11-21 13:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I remember that stuff when I was in high school and used to dress in lots of baggy clothing. That still didn't stop them. There are a lot of pervy men out there that like young girls. Sad and very sick... You'll just have to ignore them. That's what I did.
2006-11-21 13:54:06 · answer #7 · answered by Kami 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
thats why I by no skill married, many men take care of me like Im a intercourse slave to me, in the event that they around me and closed to me, they attempt to pounce and bounce on me, like a tiger pouncing on his prey
2016-10-22 12:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by huegel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every girl gets treated like this. when I was visiting family in Iran, some boy winked at me and when some guy saw me speaking english and found out i was from america, he started to dance around and try to impress me. maybe ur just pretty or maybe cuz guys are PIGS!
2006-11-21 13:56:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
I take it that it was guys your age. They can't help it. They were most likely raised stupid. Don't pay it any attention' just ignore them. When they get older maybe they will not act so retarded.
2006-11-21 13:58:03 · answer #10 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋