I seem pretty content with my life, but I just seem to be stressed out although. Like, I am worrying about things that I shouldn't be right now, like money, bills, etc. I want to get a job As soon as im 15 to get whatever Iw ant and help out my mom with things.
2006-11-21 13:42:14 · 7 answers · asked by The Roman Maze 6 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Don't think I want to help out my momlike a lot. I just want to help her, because she's been having to go through a lot of crap because of other people in our family. Besides, I want to get a job when im 15, im 14 currently. I do have a good time, but I cant fulfill my destiny when no one encourages me to. I want to lose weight, gain muscle, and become a wrestler some day. Not in WWE, but TNA, the future of wrestling. No one around here really cares that I want to do that.
2006-11-21 14:15:01 · update #1
That's great you want to help your mom. It would be nice to have your own money for things you want too, that would help her out alot. Just make sure ifyou get a job that you keep up with school work because school is important, and try to put some money in the bank too for your future.
2006-11-21 13:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by Tina of Lymphland.com 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think your mom needs a lot of help right now? You're worrying because you are realizing what adults have to worry about every day. But, you need to slow down. Help your mom just by cleaning around the house or getting good grades in school. It's good that you want to get a job, but make sure it doesn't interfere with school. Use the money you make from a job to help support yourself like buying lunch at school with it so your mom doesn't have to pay for it which will save her money or save it up for college.
2006-11-21 22:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by man_of_mustard 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do right now is to be 15. You're too young to be obsessing about those major life things. It's admirable that you would want to help out your mom, but she has adult skills to know what to do with these kind of situations. It's ok to want to help out, and when you reach 16, you can get a part time job. But, your teen years are very important in your growth, mentally and emotionally, to prepare you for your adult years. There will be plenty of time in your life for these concerns. Enjoy every second of your life at this moment. You will never get another chance. These should be your innocent carefree years. There will be no more.
2006-11-21 21:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by RBRN 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is your mom a single parent?
Regardless, the one very best things I think you can do is to focus on developing your own sense of self-sufficiency. You can always contribute a portion of your earnings, the amount isn't as valuable as the act of consistantly giving your offering.
You may be sharing your mom's concern for the welfare of the family, that's not bad. Empathy means you recognize and feel compassion for another's hardship. Your moral support (kind, upbuilding speech) can go very far to lift mom's spirits, your behavior can be like sunshine after the rain. This inspiration gives strength.
Pursue your wrestling/health interests; when others take a breather from being absorbed with their own affairs, they'll notice you have interests of your own, and can show you some support at that time.
You sound like a great kid, glad to have 'spoken' with you.
Best wishes.
2006-11-22 11:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're stressed because you want to do so much.
"If you advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endevors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours."
I also what do do so much.
Make sure though, that whatever you do it improve yourself, your life, your family's life, etc. Make sure that whatever you do isn't a waste of time and make sure that it's effective, otherwise, your just wasting your energy.
Remember, right now, you should have two priorities and here they are, from most important, to second most important.
#1 Have fun
#2 School
I just turned sixteen, and yeah, I'm looking for a part time job, but you really don't need to, or want to rush too quickly into responsibility. Your very mature for your age, and that's good, but for now just have fun.
You're a good person, and you have goals.
Now go accomplish them!
Good luck, Peace.
2006-11-21 21:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by husam 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is good that you want to help your MOM. But she is an adult and
you are a child. Don't worry, just do good in school. You will have
plenty of time to work when you get a little older. Believe me. So,
just be a kid. Talk with your mother about how you feel. But I will
tell you,...you should not be concerned with such things. I'm sure
your MOM will tell you the same thing.....There is a time for play
and a time for work. Remember this. Take Care & Be Good.
2006-11-21 21:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by CraZyCaT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, one great ally to fight stress with is logic. the reason you stress is because you tend to exaggerate things enough to consider them and think about them, kinda like digging your own hole to sleep in, dig too deep and you won't be able to jump out, so relax and put 2 and 2 together, besides your are still young you got plenty energy.
2006-11-21 21:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by Eryc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋