if you are in a realtionship with someone that really likes you and you dont like them as much how do you break up with them?
2006-11-21 13:22:34 · 19 answers · asked by caitlin s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honesty is the best. Just be careful how you tell them
2006-11-21 13:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by Julie J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by telling the truth . i know its easier said then done but the sooner you do it the easier it will be . cuz down the road it will come to a crash and someone might get hurt and the one might be you . of course this person is going to feel the pain but he should be thankful for your honesty . and pls don't hold on to him out of pity and try to fool around with someone else at the same time . only a coward would do something like that .
2006-11-21 21:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is be honest with them. It's not going to be easy, but it beats cheating on them or lying to them. Simply tell them that you've enjoyed your time together, but you feel it's time to start seeing other people. Good luck... sometimes it's harder to be the one doing the breaking-up...
2006-11-21 21:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by mJc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be nice and just tell them the truth that you just don't feel that way but be nice and stay friends if possible tell them that you need to do this before you really hurt him because you can't pretend everything is OK when its not be honest but nice.
2006-11-21 21:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by jamnjims 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want someone to tell me the truth. Start spending less time with them, then you need to tell them nicely. Good luck.
2006-11-21 22:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by Patty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him. Tell him that you just see him as a friend and you just don't feel the same anymore. Tell him he is a nice guy and bring his self-esteem up and say that there will be someone else who likes him for who he is. (Kinda even out the "rejection.") You just don't feel the same way.
2006-11-21 21:25:12 · answer #6 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you have to be sure that you want to break up with them. if you are sure, then do it as soon as possible, dragging it out will only make things worse. tell him in person, and be honest! but not too honest so it hurst his feelings.
2006-11-21 21:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by Danigirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should just be able to tell them how you feel in a slow fashion. or suggest open relationship...lol
but what makes you feel better do not stay just so you can make them feel good about themselves leave if that is what your heart is telling you to do
2006-11-21 21:30:10 · answer #8 · answered by cool cat2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them that its you not them ok actually that never worx
be straight up front with them
say that i like you just not enough to date you because i dont want u to get hurt
2006-11-21 21:26:15 · answer #9 · answered by banana music mango 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy
2006-11-21 21:27:16 · answer #10 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋