Ok my boyfriend and i have a a long distance relation ship for 1 1/2 years lately i'm the only one calling him and he doesn't call me back should I break up with him or give him another chance.
2006-11-21 13:18:46 · 22 answers · asked by Sarah S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u should talk to him see whats going that way u know what to do so u don't make the wrong choose.
2006-11-21 13:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a long distance relationship and it really takes both parties to make it work. First I would really talk to him and ask him what's up. Maybe he's upset about the relationship and think there's no point anymore because of the distance. But unfortunately if you're the only person who is keeping the relationship going then what's the point? Relationships are already difficult, especially long distant ones. I'd move on because from the sound of it this relationship is already over, if you're the only one "in it".
2006-11-21 13:31:52 · answer #2 · answered by tnhenderson_83 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends how long he has not been calling you for. If it's a few days, maybe he's busy. If it's more than a month then yes, definitely move on. Long distance relationships are very hard to maintain and when it becomes one sided, that's not much of a relationship. You deserve more.
2006-11-21 13:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say give him more time. Try a new look or something that can make him say "WOW". that way he'll become more attracted to u, i know that might sound werid because ur probably saying that hes already attracted to u. i understand that but it doesnt hurt to try. Trust me im going through the same thing with my bf and we are gonna b exactly 1 1/2 years tomorrow. All i did was wear a thong and let a little piece show while i was wearing my pants and believe me it got him a little happy and now he calls me instead of the other way around
2006-11-21 13:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by jelly1505 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
my boyfriend and i had a long distance relationship for a year and he started doing the same thing. i can honestly say i loved him and i was willing to do just about anything for him, but after a while it seemed like he wasnt willing to do that for me. everytime i called him, he was always "busy" or he didnt pick up. i thought he wanted to break up with me, but he kept telling me he loved me more than anything...i finally realized that i wasnt going to take it anymore. there are tons of guys out there and i kno that atleast one of them can actually be a man and treat me right. SO i dumped my boyfriend...and its been a really great descision. once i broke up with him, all that extra weight and worry was lifted...and i was just happy again.
2006-11-21 13:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by spicyangel8 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should dump him. There's a good chance of him going out with someone else and chances are that's why he's not calling back.
2006-11-21 13:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by kainazas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in a long distant relationship for almost 3 yrs and my ex always called me to show he cared and still does. so talk to him about it and tell him how you feel im not saying he is cheating or anything but it sounds suspicious to me so tell him how you feel and then if he doesn't change break up with him
2006-11-21 13:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by just anotha chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 08:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are rough period- and if one person's not making an effort then the relationship is not working. Let him know how you feel, if it doesn't change- let him go.
2006-11-21 13:21:56 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
break it long distance relationships never work out besides ur just wasting ur time on calling him
2006-11-21 13:22:41 · answer #10 · answered by aLl I WaNtEd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's gone! hon, pull your anchor up and move to a new fishing ground! You find a new friend hon! It's easier! Have a good day!
2006-11-21 13:26:25 · answer #11 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋