When a man comes fast does that mean the sex is good or that he cant handle the feeling? What does it mean if he cums fast? And if he lasts long does that mean the sex is not good?
2006-11-21 13:16:38 · 14 answers · asked by exceptionallyexceptional 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no textbook answer to any of these questions. It all depends on the individual in question and what their tastes are sexually; what they respond to most. Some really respond to the sensation brought on by intercourse while others may be stimulated more by certain types of foreplay. It's all about whatever gets ya through the night is alright.
2006-11-21 13:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get freaked out some guys are to sensitive and do shoot fast but if that's the case wait 10 or 15 minutes i bet it lasts a long time ! and if he last a long time it don't mean it was bad either can be a lot of things , if he is having problems lasting long try again or you can have him pull out and wait a few , it could also be that you are tightening up on him i mean your vagina inside is like a muscle and if it clenches it can make him go fast as well , that's not a bad thing you know but then again if he cant last a long time make sure and teach him hand techniques so he can please you its not all about quantity it about quality , there is more to sex then just intercourse , oral hand play and toy's !
im not afraid to say i had that problem when i was younger he can learn to last and til then he can learn al kinds of fun things to please you and you both will enjoy it all
hope this helps you both
2006-11-21 21:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by Duane G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy busts a nut to fast that means that he either hasn't had any in a while or he is jumping on you and only thinking about himself. In other words he needs to slow down a little. The longer he last the better the sex will be for both. That comes with practice.
2006-11-21 21:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is far to complicated to give you just a short answer but I will try. Premature Ejaculation IS a problem for some men and has nothing to do with whether the sex is good or bad. For other men, it has to do with the sensation applied to his penis. If a womens vagina is tight, a man might *** very fast, but that doesn't mean the sex was "out of this world"... it just means he was overstimulated. Now just because sex lasts a long time doesn't mean it's bad! Some men enjoy pleasing their lover and have a propensity to prolong ejaculation. This isn't for his benifit but for his lovers. The flip side is there are men who have trouble with erections and ejaculation. This has nothing to do with the attractiveness of his partner or his passion for her... it is merely a problem that a lot of men suffer from. Stress tends to be a big contributor to this problem. So bottom line is... find a man with a stress free job, who enjoys pleasing his lover and does it with passion. Here is a tip I've heard some women use to tell if a guy will be a good lover (not just a good f&#k with a big d1ck). Check out his fingernails. If they are well manicured, then he will be an awesome lover because if he takes time to take care of himself, he will take care of you in bed! If they are ugly and look bitten to the quick, he will not be the best. It means he doesn't have time to take care of himself so he sure won't take care of you in bed! Whew!
2006-11-21 21:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by go_uva 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes. It can be for a few different reasons. 1) It's been a while. 2) It's so good you can't help it. 3) You don't have much time. For me it's no big deal if I do because I'll last a lot longer the second time around. It's very difficult to try and answer your questions. What does he say?
2006-11-21 21:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by Albatross 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my boyfriend can control when he cumz I don't know if all guys can do that or not. But when I am not in the mood very much he can *** in 2 minutes and when I am he can last for a while. Sometimes he cums very quickly if we haven't had sex in a while. So I don't know??
2006-11-21 21:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by Danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sex was good AND he can't handle the feeling! Well, if he lasts long then either he's bored or he has a certain routine. Isn't that cute when they can't hold it lol?
2006-11-21 21:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by BarbieQ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When a man comes quick it is either because they have not had any in awhile or they just are very sensitive in that area... it can have something to do with the sex but not always.....
2006-11-21 21:20:03 · answer #8 · answered by :)*taurus tease*(: 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All in the mind honey.
It could be 5 mins of mindblowing fun or you could go thru it for 15 mins and still wait for it to end.
Who you have it with also makes a lot of difference.
Regards
2006-11-21 21:20:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
to each their own some like it when men come fast but that does sometimes mean the sex being ruff and what not.
when a man takes longer to come it just because he took his time with it and wanted to please you.
2006-11-21 21:23:48 · answer #10 · answered by cool cat2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋