I have this so called best friend who has been interested in me since high school, but respects the fact that I am taken. When we started off talking on the phone alot a few months ago, everything was cool. We would hangout and joke around. I was happy because he is the only friend other than my boyfriend that i have. He was even the one that told me that I was his best friend. But now he barely calls me and when I call him, he's always busy and this has been going on for alittle over a month. I really think he is a nice guy and he was someone I wasnt afraid I to pour my heart out to when I needed advice. Now I can barely talk to him when I need to. WHAT SHOULD I DO......move on?... keep tryin'?.....be patient and wait?.....do you think Im demanding too much attention???..........TELL ME WHATEVER YOUR VIEWS ARE!!!
2006-11-21 13:11:41 · 6 answers · asked by J.B. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems that this guy would like to be your boyfriend but you already have one. He may no longer be very available because he no longer wants to be just friends. Or maybe he now has a relationship of his own and confides in his girlfriend. Sorry that he's not very available now. If I were you, I'd let some time pass and not keep trying to contact him for awhile.
2006-11-21 13:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by rochelleslomovits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bank on nothing hon, not even "so called friends" There's no absolutes in this lifetime. If only there were but NOT! Life sucks.At least you got a boyfriend. Talk to him, he should be your best friend. That's why relationships don't work out. You better watch out, you might like the other guy better.....
2006-11-21 21:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why cant you talk to your boyfriend when you need someone to talk to? but it sounds like you kinda pushed your friend to the side when you got your new boyfriend so he had to move on and find more friends bc you never made time for him. hes just giving you a taste of your own medicine. also, its hard to have a good guy friend when you have a boyfriend. try finding girls that you can talk to.
2006-11-21 21:17:00 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Him being your friend had nothing to do with him wanting to be your friend. It was a way to get at you. Leave him alone for a while. If he wants to continue your friendship, he will, but give him his space. He's most likely sulking.
2006-11-21 21:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him a time to think about your relationships. And try to move on don't be stuck in this time! good luck!
2006-11-21 21:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him y he has change all of a sudden
2006-11-21 21:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by Macavelli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋