my husband drinks alot at one time but not all the time after he has had alot he likes to start a fight with me. but the last time was the first time he ever grabed me and said he was going to through me out a window. he also brock my car window. i took my kids and left of the night. but came home the next day. he asked me to come home. nowhe is not talking to me much. it's like he wishs the kids and i would go away. please help
2006-11-21 13:00:31 · 7 answers · asked by rita b 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Other - Diseases
OK what is the background?
has he always drank a lot when he does drink, and if so how did treat you then? what about when he isn't drinking how is he then?
i don't know the details to me it looks like he is angry at you for something, but doesn't know how to talk about it, is he resentful about someone you know, or is he jealous, does he blame you for something in his life that isn't going the way he wants? if this is a behavior that he often has, you need to get out. if it isn't then he needs to talk to you about what is bothering him. but the most important thing is he needs to quit drinking, that is never the answer.
2006-11-21 13:20:08 · answer #1 · answered by cvgm702 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where are you from In US or outside?
How old are your kids? He has no business of behaving like that with you. Take help of someone and confront him lightly. Like say loudly to stop. If he gets abusive then complain to some elders. And also take it easy. and try to ask him why he behaves like that. Does he want something that you can give. etc. engage him in conversation ans be bold and try to be loving and dress attractive and make something nice.
2006-11-22 20:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definetely go to specialised help,agencies or other people who has experience in this field, but the main thing is to make him accept the help and talk about it,does he have friends? If he does bring them along and try to enquire about his job,his social life.
2006-11-21 22:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by Kaushall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to him and find out whats his problem. sounds like he could become violent and you sure do not need to stay with him if he gets that way. he may just be trying to run you off too so you do need to talk to him.
2006-11-21 21:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some back bone and give him an ultimatum.
2006-11-21 21:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by thresher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is an alcoholic and needs help now...YOU must get out with your kids, because he has already said to you he will hurt you....and, they do, i know...
good luck
2006-11-21 21:32:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
need to get help before he cause harm to you and family. counseling----------------if dont work--------------go to step 2. I repeat, I repeat-------------only you know what step 2 is!!!!!!
2006-11-21 21:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋