I like a girl and I dont think Ive ever liked a girl more. The problem is I dont wanna tell her directly that I like her but more like hint it to her. Any advice on how to hint it?
2006-11-21 12:38:40 · 17 answers · asked by MiamiGuy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello MiamiGuy,
I'm sorry, but communications is the most important part of a relationship. If you can't or don't want to tell her how you feel, how do you expect her to have a relationship with you? It's a case of no guts, no glory.
This is something that guys have to learn how to be around girls. Girls like guys who have confidence. So swallow your pride, or fear, or what ever it is that's keeping you from hooking up with her and tell her how you feel.
It's easy for us to talk, yeah right, I know. But, this is something that you've got to do if you want to get what you're after. Maybe she is too shy to tell you what she thinks, and just you making the first move is what she's been waiting for. I know that it's risky to put your heart on the line like that, but that's part of being a guy, you know.
Also, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what you should do. You definitely need to learn a little Leykis-101 to get more women in your life. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:
http://www.blowmeuptom.com
I hope that this helps you. Good luck and happy hunting.
--Rick
2006-11-21 12:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why hint to her? Hinting around on your true feelings can mean two things: You are too nervous/scared to admit your feelings, or you are just playing games with her. Also, if you hint it to her, she might not pick it up, and you could confuse her entirely. If you really like this girl, you should be upfront and confident and just be yourself when you tell her. Good luck!
2006-11-21 12:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt more. brush up against her. wink at her. Smile at her. Look at her in a certain way that says I like you. Better yet watch chick flicks and watch the body language of the guys to learn. But the best bet is just to ask her out. U can only get one of two answers and then u will know how she feels about you.
2006-11-21 12:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by Alternative Chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your gonna have to tell her directly. Or at the very least tell one of her friends.
The reason i say tell her directly is because she could be asking on here one day if you like her, and people tend to give mixed responces so if you don't tell her soon, then you will both lose out compleatly. Good Luck
2006-11-21 12:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by justasking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fastest way would be to let ur friends spread a rumor about you liking her around school...after that make sure you ask her to go to the movies as friends or group dates hang out with her more than you usually do i'm sure she would notice that hint right under her nose! lol
2006-11-21 13:12:20 · answer #5 · answered by nohemy_a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice would be this:
spend alot of time with her - it will make her suspect that you like her and maybe like you back
say things like "i trust you not to tell my secrets" or "i didnt tell anyone else but you" to let her see that she's important
have a friend drop hints for you eg. "he acts like he really likes you"...."has he asked you out yet"
start casual - "i'm going to the movies with some other people - want to come with me?"
good luck
2006-11-21 12:43:07 · answer #6 · answered by maxman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good god boy' Grow some balls and step up' Be a man. If you like the girl ask her out. The way you want to go about it you come off looking like a wiener. You will never get her to go out with you. Girls like boys that will just come out and ask. It shows confidence.
2006-11-21 12:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol thats problematical, evidently human beings would bypass with poetry and stuff like that, it really is continually large, yet attempting to do something distinct shows a extra thoughtful heart. attempt writing her a music and record it to a cd, that would surely be impressive. it would want to also be a poem with music contained in the decrease back floor.
2016-11-29 08:44:03 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell her directly, she will think you're a stalker. Give her alot of eye contact and get in her space when you are around her. Girls go crazy when you are in their space (closer then five inches).
2006-11-21 12:44:05 · answer #9 · answered by carly h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt with her. Tease her a little (not too much!)...talk to her alot. Look at her and smile...try to be around her alot. If she likes the attention, then eventually you will feel confortable telling her how you feel :)
2006-11-21 12:43:03 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetthing4u09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋