I went out with this guy Tylor for two months. Everything was great it was perfict he was everything I ever wanted in a guy. We were open to each other, we would talk about if we thought something was wrong in our relashionship and try to solve it. We would give eachother the space that we both needed. like i said perfict. Till he started ignoring me for 2 days, thinking "well he might need some space." since he was so upset. And then before I notice he emails me saying that he is braking up with me, leaving me clueless why. And a cople of weeks later he talked to one of my friends and he told me that Tylor told him that he was confused about something.
So right now I can't stop thinking about what he said. And inside I still love him. But I don't want to anymore since now that I am noticing different things about him that make me not want to like him anymore. But I still do. so how can I stop?
2006-11-21 12:36:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find someone else.
2006-11-21 12:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by Mark K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you! The best answer is also the simplest one, TIME. Yup, time really does make the pain go away. I realize that time moves slowly when it is pain from the heart. You sound like a really nice person to care so deeply. You are honestly and truly better off. One day you will find the right person who will be as caring and kind as you. You may have to have your heart broken again, but be patient.
Good Luck!
2006-11-21 20:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by SunnyOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have an answer, only to say, you can't choose who you love, you can only do something about it. Talk to him, even as just a friend, tell him how you feel, honestly you've already had a broken heart, it can't get any worse, only better, maybe in the leasty your could help him and if you really liek him, that's all that matters
2006-11-21 20:41:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get closure. You need to find a way to end your relationship with him. It always helps to live the single life, go searching for someone new. There is just to many fish in the sea, cute fish at that to be hungup on someone who really is just wasting your time!
2006-11-21 20:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by That_Girl_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unless you can realistically see your self geting back with this guy, then find someone else( even a good friend will work) to be around to take you mind off your ex. But it will take some time.
2006-11-21 20:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by keithr2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not speak or meet him again for meanwhile until you feel sure that u can forget ur love feeling to him. do some activity and make ur self busy, such as gymnastic, hanging out with ur friends. it will make u not remember him in anytime and later u will find out u can forget ur love feeling to him.
2006-11-21 20:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by dena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant help the way you feel! tell yourself over and over again that you will find better than him, but he will never find better than you. if someone truely means something to your heart, youll prob love them forever. its just the intensity that lessens. it will though.
2006-11-21 20:41:22 · answer #7 · answered by ehhhhuhwhat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if its true love no matter how mad you are with him you are never gonna stop loving him!
you are just recentful for what he did to you, and if you say that he was so "perfect" then why leave him when he is loving you?
2006-11-21 20:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by Freed I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it might have been lust... think it was only 2 months, forget him and go have some fun! plus he told you in a frickin email.. how lame he cant say it to your face?
2006-11-21 20:40:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to find someone else , or better yet...have this time...to know yourself more...enjoy being single...and dont go into another relationship right away....so u will know who u are first......
2006-11-21 20:41:03 · answer #10 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋