some whore is trying to steal my bf and i gave him ny virg and he lost his to me, but he likes her and i am jealous of her!!what can i do is she wrong?
2006-11-21 12:28:15 · 16 answers · asked by hotpinkchica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HELLO?! If you lost your virginity to him, then he should rightfully be yours. Losing one's virginity is a mark that you belong to him, and vice versa. If she knows that you two have already "marked" each other, then she should know to stay away.
2006-11-21 12:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by treerose810 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you need to find a mental health professional and seek secular counseling. If you don't want to use your parents' insurance, try to find a low-cost mental health clinic. And go to a Planned Parenthood or some other clinic to get yourself tested for any and all STIs (HIV is not the only infection to which you are vulnerable). Doing so will give you great peace of mind. And don't ever have unprotected sex again. You should consider going to back to college and look for a school in a progressive town, if onlyl to get you away from an environment that seems very toxic for you. And check out "It Gets Better" on YouTube. I know my advice is largely secular, but you don't need religion to be happy.
2016-05-22 11:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I think it's wrong, but you can't stop people from doing what they want, even if it's wrong and not what you want at all.
That's like when men get married--supposedly, they get a lot more offers from women because they're seen as more desirable. Like, if one woman took a chance on marrying him, then there must be something to the guy. Or maybe the guy just dresses better and smells better since he's married, y'know, shaves and gets proper haircuts and all that. It might be the same kinda deal.
That sucks, but don't go all psycho about it. Sounds like a cliche, but if your bf is going to take up with some skank who just wants to steal him from you...you're better off without him and you should just say good riddance. Not that it'll make you feel better right off the bat, but eventually, when you move on and find somebody else, you won't mind what happened so much.
Good luck with that. Just be the best you can be and if he doesn't dig that, then to hell with him!
2006-11-21 12:36:10 · answer #3 · answered by SlowClap 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah she's wrong. Teens or not, you're adolescents and you're growing up. You need companionship and friends, and your social life now may affect your social life in the future, as an adult. Your friend is way off limits, and you need to talk to her, and your boyfriend about it.
However, if it's your boyfriend's choice to break up with you for her, then you have to respect that, otherwise you're in the wrong for intruding on their relationship.
Sorry. This is just the way all unhappy love triangles seem to be. Someone suffers, no matter what.
2006-11-21 12:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by Link 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, she's wrong. It doesn't matter what age you are--stealing another boyfriend/girlfriend is wrong. It shows that person as a backstabber, unloyal, dishonest, and a whole lotta not-nice words. You need to stand up for yourself....if you love your boy (which I hope you do since you gave him the most precious gift you could give anyone), then you need to fight for him. If she's trying to steal him.....turn his attention back to you which is where it should be anyway if he's worth anything.
2006-11-21 12:32:13 · answer #5 · answered by Froggy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
pink: Your ex stole your virginity, a girl stole your ex, and you are "hung out to dry" ... right? I don't blame you for feeling jealous of her but your ex, guy, made the decision to like her more than you and go with her. Obviously your ex just used you for the sex and now, you are the one dumped. Would you really want him back after he's been in bed with the enemy? You will have to "chalk" it up to one of life's many lessons to be learned and suck it up! All is fair in love and war ! Next time a guy walks into your life, think twice about putting out for him unless you like the feeling you have now. Life consists of opportunity and choice ... learn to choose the right choice to avoid long-term pain.
2006-11-21 12:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand that you can not change free will,if he wants someone else what can you do to stop him? Nothing,If you really want to get over him and your jealousy ask him why he choose her instead of you,then learn from it.
2006-11-21 12:33:45 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop him from leaving....
A girl who tries to "steal" someone else's boyfriend is a skank, but the guy who goes for that crap is an idiot too....
2006-11-21 12:32:10 · answer #8 · answered by from HJ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he like her he probly will end up leaving you for her if shes fast access to he just there for the pussssssy but who cares ummmmmmmmm there are milllions of guys out there good ones to
2006-11-21 12:34:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you each lost your virginity doesn't mean it lasts forever or he belongs to you. You sound young, it's normal to want new people. You don't have to have sex with them.
2006-11-21 12:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋