I would like some honest answers from MEN and not children please. Plus, do not judge me. My conscience is bothering me. I cheated. Not only did I cheat, I cheated with a young man that is half of my current's age. He was twenty one and I was with him six times.Just when I was lonely. Anyway, time has passed and I would never do it again but my conscience is bothering me. But I rather for my conscience to bother me than being alone and brokenhearted. Men would you rather to know or not to know? Keep in mind, I am not seeing anyone else now.
2006-11-21 12:22:53 · 9 answers · asked by 2fine4u 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it depends why you were lonely, was he always gone to work or gone bar hopping or fishing playing golf. You never said why you were lonely. But if you really love a guy and don't want to lose him if you doesn't know why tell him. Cause if it was me and you told me I would think we would be thru. But if I didn't know about it and you not doing it anymore hey why tell him. But if you were to start tell him. It all comes down to the Question DO you love him?
2006-11-21 12:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very tough decision you must make. Lets face it if you reveal it to you spouse regardless of the sex(male or female) it is going to hurt them. So the real question is do you keep quiet and live with the guilt or do you tell them. Remember 9 out of 10 times this ends the relationship. More then likely he will hate you forever and never forgive you. To be honest if I ever stray from my wife regardless of the circumstances I will not tell her. That is one thing she will never forgive me for nor would I forgive her. It is fun to flirt and have fun but once you cross the line you can not take it back. Telling them will only make it worse. If the affair is over and both of you agree it is over you should never tell.
2006-11-21 20:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by skinnyrich_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not a guy but honestly if my boyfriend cheated on me i wouldnt want to knwo it would devestate me, but if he has the chance of finding out from other people i would tell him and be honest all depends on the siuatution
2006-11-21 20:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think that you husband has a right to know the circumstances of his life so he can decide how to live it?
Do you get to withhold the important facts so that he'll make the choices you want him to make?
2006-11-21 20:28:51 · answer #4 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
6 times ?...yes..he deserves to know.You decieved him and thats the bottom line...time for you to stand up now and tell him..I feel sorry for the guy.
2006-11-21 20:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex cheated, I caught her, we divorced.
If you cheated, why should he keep you? What is there that would make him overlook that?
2006-11-21 20:36:46 · answer #6 · answered by Axeman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to know
2006-11-21 20:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by goldfreeblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd have a divorce
2006-11-21 20:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by martin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough one, probably not
2006-11-21 20:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by Grant C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋