i think he is losing it but fed up helping him out as he did this through drugs am i to blame so fed up as i got more bad news about him tonight.so fed uppp worrying. got grandchildren to worry about now .am i a bad person.
2006-11-21 12:12:18 · 6 answers · asked by I'll help you---You help me 3 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Other - Diseases
thank you all for your answers xxx will try to get halp for him but think he is to old for my help now as he is his own man. thank you all
2006-11-21 13:27:34 · update #1
You're not a bad person.
You need to take care of yourself and your grandchildren.
It sounds like he has some problems that are really beyond your ability to help anyway - if he has a mental illness, he probably needs to do some inpatient time to stabilize and figure out what medications he needs. He need professional pyschiatric help.
Take care of yourself, and leave him to the professionals.
2006-11-21 12:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not to blame ... I can't help you with the understanding of the term, but I can tell you that I don't think you're a bad person. It must be hard and stressful for you to cope with. Not only are you worrying about your son, but about your grandchildren too. If the stress is too much, can you ask your doctor to help you? Maybe he/she can give you more info about your son and his condition? Hope your ok, I'm sorry I can't help you more, but from what you said, I don't think you're to blame.
Just got this website from someone helping me (I have OCD I think) and it has information about schizophrenia ... will this help? http://sensitive-psychoworld.blogspot.com/ (Just click 'schizophrenia' at the top and it will re-direct you to loads of sites. xxx
2006-11-21 12:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by Vicky yeah! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
liz it is really hard to sit by and watch someone you love kill them self slowly with drugs. it is completely normal to separate your self emotionally from them with anger. he chose to do the drugs. i am sure you didn't force him to do so. if you feel he is beyond your help..let go of him and let god take control. place your energies where they will be most usefull. the grandchildren need you now.
2006-11-21 12:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a mental thing, not from abuse. I have a friend with it, and there are drugs. she is pretty normal, just a bit odd, she thought that she was married to ted bundy once and she drove me crazy my self, I had to get out of her life for a time, because she was wearing out me mentally.
2006-11-21 12:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
liz Your Extra ! Your Extra!!...
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2006-11-21 12:46:30 · answer #5 · answered by lpg o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not a bad person just make sure he gets help
2006-11-21 12:17:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋