I like my boy friend James. But i never get to see! Because he goes to bording school. Then on the other there is this other guy that goes to my school and I think he is really cute and he is really nice to me. I think he likes me and i sort of like him. What do i do? Should i break up with James?
2006-11-21 12:05:58 · 14 answers · asked by babygirl100% 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is a lot easier to be with the guy that is closest to you. You shouldn't jump to conclusions, but i would be scared that James has got another girl that is closer to him, but you'll never find out because you never see him. Think about which one you like more and way out the pros and cons.
2006-11-21 12:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by simojord2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if you think this guy is worth waiting for and how you really feel about him/the situation. Don't break up JUST because you don't get to see him very often. Right now, I would do just about anything for a long distance relationship 'cause a person that I'm ******' crazy for lives some distance away and I know that if we were ever together, she'd be more than worth the wait.
Only you can answer this question really :)
2006-11-21 20:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by Random Mandom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what and who you want. Is the relationship you have now with James worth keeping?, or do you want something more with this other guy? I myself have a long distance relationship and we make things work. We get to see eachother every other month or so for a few weeks at a time. Another alternative to not being able to see your boyfriend, is using webcams. I do it every weekend with my fiance. It helps A LOT! We talk everyday on the phone as well. Its your choice though. You can really like some guy other than your boyfriend, but LOVE your boyfriend.
2006-11-21 20:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Long distance relationships are doomed. Either pack your bags and go to boarding school with James, which you can't. Or send James a letter knowing that you care deeply about him, however the lack of him being here for you is too much to bare! You want him to be happy and you know that by letting him free to find another woman, he'll be a better person. We can still send letters and talk. But I'm moving on with my life. When you get in the real world.... let me know! If I'm available we can talk!
2006-11-21 20:09:15 · answer #4 · answered by almondjoy_1000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to think hard and look deep within yourself. Who would you really rather be with regardless of location? Long distance relationships ARE hard and rarely last...that's just the truth. You might, in fact, need a break from James to see what you really need and want in your life. A good suggestion for you is to even write down the pros/cons of your relationship with James and see if it's worth it. :)
2006-11-21 20:09:05 · answer #5 · answered by sws_classic_caramel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to tell you this but I don't think long distance relationships work out because relationships for me are about spending time together, going through ups & downs. I think you would be better off with some that would be able to hug when you are feeling down? of course get to know the person frist
2006-11-21 20:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by lambchope86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with James. It probably inevitable. Long distance relationships are really hard, and you might be passing up an opportunity.
2006-11-21 20:09:28 · answer #7 · answered by tsopolly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask to your heart. which one that u more love? ur boyfriend james or another boy? but dont be to hurry to break up with james, coz probably james still love u and so do u. but just because he is in boarding school, u feel he didnt love u again. just dont be to hurry and keep loyal to james for meanwhile. i hope it can help.
2006-11-21 20:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by dena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at you age everything must be rushed. Go with the best guy, whichever one.
But you will probably not stay with him, in which case date the other guy and you will find out a lot quicker if he is the right guy for you.
Long distance relationship can last forever.
2006-11-21 20:10:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just come out to your boyfriend and tell him that you don't get to see him alot. You should also tell him that you want to try and go on seperate rodes. Don't really tell the guy at schoold right away. Do it gradually, and then tell him. Maybe you guys could work out better.
2006-11-21 20:09:31 · answer #10 · answered by harryfrodo@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋