Interesting question - for me, in short form, I like curvy girls. That about sums it up... once they've caught my eye I check butt, then breasts, then eyes. Then personality - if the personality (how she acts towards me, towards others) sucks then its pretty much game over for a long term relationship. Flirtatious, cute, funny and witty attract my attention for a potential long term dating or more kind of thing.
Ideally I suppose I go for
brunette, love brunettes, with medium to long (not TO long hair) say shoulder length. Also like unusual colors or mixes, blue, pink etc - best I've seen in that category was black running down to a lightish blue...
short, under 5' 6" - although my two longest relationships were with 5' 7" and 5' 8" women
eyes widely spaced, color isn't that important, but I like hazel, grey, green and blue to some extent - most of my companions have had brown or hazel eyes.
an oval to round face,
somewhat narrow shoulders (compared to hips),
breast size not a big thing - depends on my mood,
prefer smaller nipples and areola - and not saggy breasts... narrow waist (narrower than shoulders and hips) - I do like the girl tummy bulge, sometimes prefer the toned version.
Inny belly button,
Hips wider than waist
Round inverted heart shape bottom - not huge, not flat,
Hairless or well shaved pubic region, sparse or peach fuzzy is ok - don't like getting hair in my throat, and looks sexier, not into using a machete to hack through the forest to eat, you know?
Labia and mons I've never really thought about - I think smell is more important so please bathe properly
Clitoris size doesn't matter unless its like penis sized or something - not sure how I would react to that.
Long shapely legs are nice - but legs longer than torso length are pretty much just peachy by me.
Oh and legs should be shaved.
Small to medium sized feet - not sure how I would react to like basketball player sized feet - and I like toes, they're cute, but not into hairy toes... (I mean like hobbit hairy, not peach fuzz hairy).
Flexible is also a bonus but not necessary.
Two notes - their are two basic body types used in some science studies regarding women - women come in two shapes, pear and apple. I'm a pear man.
And:
As an historical note - the beauty ideal for women has a mathematical formula. In a study of 'erotic' art - scientists found that regardless of whether the standard of prefers voluptuous, fat, skinny, whatever - the ratio of upper body, waist and hips was invariably the same - 3 to 2 to 3. This, ironically, matches the supposed 'perfect woman' from some decades ago - 36 bust, 24 waist, 36 hips.
For me - a little less on top is fine but other wise that curvy ratio is my thing...
Just my .01
-dh
2006-11-21 12:26:31
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answered by delicateharmony 5
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I'd dump him asap. If he likes another girl and she him, WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? Real love doesn't play games or have wandering eyes, it's committed and hard work. You MUST see this as a red flag, a deal breaker, strike three. Your young, i'm guessing, you shouldn't even be considering a SERIOUS relationship that is going to cause you insecurity. Have fun, don't become overly invested in this, WHAT? you can't flirt? Move on, the writing is on the wall and it spells trouble. Do yourself a favor and cut the guy loose, if it is destined to be, it will run it's course and he'll be back. But why you would take him back only you can answer.
2016-03-29 04:52:07
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answered by Anonymous
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One great thing about guys is that we all don't like exactly the same thing.
We might all (or mostly all) appreciate the "ideal woman" you see in the media, but that doesn't mean that we don't like -- or even prefer -- other types of women.
Some guys go for super-thin model types, some have a thing for women with some (or a lot of) muscle, others like women with curves. The "girl next door" type (the average 5'4 135 or so)appeals to a lot of guys as well. There are also guys who like their ladies with a lot of padding.
I think that out of the 3 billion or so guys in the world, there's got to be a few hundred (or even a few thousand) out there who would appreciate "you." (That is, any given woman.)
Fear not, ma'am. We're out here!
2006-11-21 12:15:10
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answered by CaptainAustrailia 2
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Every Guy is diffrent,
I love curvy women, I have mates that love skinny women, and I also have mates that would only date big women.
What I personally like is a woman that has a classical body with full lips, and dark hair! mmmmm mmmm! hehe! But the thing that really turns me on is a smile and a good personality! that goes head and shoulders over all of the above!
2006-11-21 12:08:49
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answered by andi 2
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Just keep in mind. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. One guy may like them to be skinny, lean, with a tight little figure while others may like a little meat on the bones. A wise man once said, "One person's dog is another person's babe". Just keep that in mind the next time you get rejected or overlooked.
That said, I would say that my ideal woman would be between 5'0" to 5'6" tall since I am a shorter than average guy myself. Hair color doesn't matter as long as it is a natural hair color. She would have to be average, athletic or lean built since I am into athletics myself. Most important is that she has brains and a sense of style.
After the looks get me interested, I find out what is on the inside to see if we are truly compatible.
2006-11-21 12:12:04
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answered by davester1970 7
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my Ideal girl would have long red hair, dark green eyes, Soft skin, long legs, a firm body not too skinny, small too medium breasts,a beautifull smile and the most important thing she should be smart and honest. I'm looking for the last two first.
2006-11-21 12:10:11
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answered by masterzuaba 4
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the best kind of girl (physically) is one that is not fat, and not skinny.. right in between where she's not sporting a gut, but not completely ripped either. Not sure that helps.
The best kind of girl (all things considered) is one that likes me for me, smart, funny and compassionate and can rely on you and be independent at the same time.
2006-11-21 12:09:21
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answered by Say it like it is 4
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fit girls ones without extra fat but not so skinny they look like they have an eating disorder
2006-11-21 12:05:17
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answered by Mr. Primetime 3
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i like a girl who smiles alot has nice hair you know they look like they actually take care of it. and nice chest area but not too big. a girl who doesnt act like a s**t. and a girl who is not fat but looks in shape and not real skinny. and a girl who has a nice features.
2006-11-21 12:08:25
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answered by Anonymous
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girls with long hair,eyes that stand out, skinny but not too skinny at least a little meat on them
2006-11-21 12:06:05
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answered by Guitar Fingers 1
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