My parents are super strict like they want me to have the varsity football captain and such but my boyfriend is way less than perfect. They know it and hate it. He has a really bad past but has changed and they don't see that they just see his past. It's catching up to him and he can't get out of the way. He's been kicked out of school and the only time i see him during the week is when we're in school other than that i might be allowed to go out with him on the weekends but it's not fair. My parents will probably blow up on me if i actually say he got kicked out or whatever. What should i do?
2006-11-21 11:52:45 · 16 answers · asked by juniorteen312005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell them you broke up with him... then ACTUALLY BREAK UP with this loser. What kind of a moron do you have to be to be KICKED out of school? C'mon, you really feel that bad about yourself that you need a loser to make you feel better?
2006-11-21 11:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by Say it like it is 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Listen to your parents on this one okay, if they are telling you somethin is for a reason, if your boyfriend cared so much about you and knows that the only times he can see you is during school, then he should not done what he did to get kicked out. Now, you are in a situation that in order to see him you would have to either be sneaky and lie to your parents which will cause you to get in alot of trouble (and you dont need that), or it can cause you to be skipping school just to see him. Either way this kid is not good for you and is going to eventually bring you down with him. Dont let that happen to you, you seem like a smart girl. listen to your parents.
2006-11-21 12:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by Yahoo User 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he just got kicked out maybe he hasn't changed as much as you think he has. I know it's hard to look at this objectively, but you really need to think about whether this guy is getting his life on track or not. It's not just bad luck. He has put himself in this position. So, what is he doing to get out of it?
You should make sure this is a guy who is going to help you move in the direction you want to move. Football captains can be jerks, too, so don't go by that, but really think about how he treats you and what he is DOING (not says he is TRYING yo do, but DOING) to get himself on track.
2006-11-21 11:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by MathGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, this is a guy who's going to need a lot of time to get things sorted out. And it's probably best sorted out with just him and his family, without including you and yours.
Date some other folks, and stay open to the idea of dating him again in the future, when that past has all been caught up and dealt with in his life.
2006-11-21 11:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by Johnna L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you could do SO much better than him! Going out with a guy that your parent's don't approve of is tough, I know. But your going to do what your going to do. But I'd break up with him. What you should do is one night sit down and talk to your parents. Act mature and let them know your feelings, and what you think. Good luck and I hope this works!
2006-11-21 12:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that due to circumstances out of your control, now you are in the market for a new boyfriend!!!
2006-11-21 12:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by woodtigerdp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you should casually "the kid" got kicked out of school for ...... and then you can explain why, how hes changed, why you like him...still do... and how it important for u to stay with him. its your choice. take me advice...im 12.
2006-11-21 11:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not tell them. It's none of their business. But... just my personal opinion here, why the hell are you dating a guy who got KICKED OUT of school?! Eeks...
2006-11-21 11:56:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
my friend did too for saying bad stuff to ocs teacher i dint tell m parents
2006-11-21 12:09:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them.. explain every detail of what happened because they would get really mad if they will hear it from somebody else that would let them think that they can't trust you anymore
2006-11-21 11:58:50 · answer #10 · answered by eunice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋