okay there is this guy that i've known for a while now and like hes the sweetest ever, he would never try to hurt me, and hes great. i like him but like hes not the cutest guy in the school...i wanna end up dating him but i know people will like make fun of me or say stuff b/c a LOT of ppl know me...now i want to date him but what should i say to the ppl who are gonna say mean stuff to get them to get off my back? HELP!
2006-11-21 11:36:42 · 14 answers · asked by b a b y : ) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all i can say is that if you like him date him if your friends laugh at you then they are not your friends. good luck! :)
2006-11-21 11:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to do what makes you happy. You take control of your life and don't let anyone have any influence on your decisions. If they say ugly things to you and him just act like it doesn't bother you. I actually look up to you for making the decision to date him. that shows that you are a loving person and you are not focused on the outward appearance but know that someones true beauty comes from inside and shines brightly on the out through there personality. You need to stand up for the wonderful person that you are and just act like there words don't bother you. eventually they will accept this and leave you alone. Just tell them if they make a comment about it that they have there oppinion and you have yours. Those kind of judgemental people does not make very good friends anyway. Good luck
2006-11-21 11:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by horsecrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 23:48:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you are in Jr. or Sr. High School? If you are looking for an answer I would say go for it. Forget whatever other people are saying. Hard to put into practice though, but later when you are 30 you'll be glad u did it
2006-11-21 12:06:30 · answer #4 · answered by thousandisland 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you the cutest girl in school? That makes me so mad. judging people by their looks is just ridiculous. remember the beauty and the beast? If this guy is as great as you think you are simply tell your (friends?) that he is just perfect for you and you are proud to be with him and they are missing a lot in life if only looks are important to them.
2006-11-21 11:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by TillieDillie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time, the cutest guy in school is the biggest jerk, because they know they are good looking and every girl falls all over themselves to go out with them....
Tell your friends that you like him, for him,,, list his good qualities and then tell them its none of their business!
2006-11-21 11:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by redneon3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like a guy, dont let peer pressure separate u 2! they have no rite 2 tell u who u can n cant date
2006-11-21 11:41:42 · answer #7 · answered by Isabelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let people control what descisions you make. If you like the person then you like him. You should stop being selfish and thinking of urself and think about his too.
2006-11-21 11:41:28 · answer #8 · answered by dcutegirl06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them that you're not interested in a shallow representation of a relationship: you want something real. even if he's not going to be an abercrombie model, he's going to make your heart happy... and when it comes to the real deal: that's all that matters.
2006-11-21 11:48:53 · answer #9 · answered by nc ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're worried about what people will say...then you need to re-evaluate yourself. stop caring what other people think of you. if you really like this guy, then screw everyone else and go for him.
2006-11-21 11:41:03 · answer #10 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who the hel! cares what people say about you. Just suck it up. If they do start talking trash, it's just because their jealous.
2006-11-21 11:41:46 · answer #11 · answered by stephenjlb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋