Right now my bf (17) and I (17f) have been going out for about 2 months. We kiss and hug, but we still haven't made out. We're long distance and we've only been on 2 real dates so far, but I still want things to go a little faster. I've never made out with a guy before. Any suggestions on what I should do next time I see him?
2006-11-21 11:30:43 · 12 answers · asked by some girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you're ready for something he may not be ready for.
2006-11-23 02:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in your both 17 you may not need to rush it but if you're going to anyway. Communication is always the biggest problem here. What you want and he might want could be exactly the same thing but both are too shy to ask.
I assume you e-mail him or chat with him somehow. So I would say I have really enjoyed our short time together. Your hugs and kisses are always special and I hold dear to my heart.
I look forward to seeing you and when we are together next I hope that we will have more time to be more intimate and discover each other…. would you like this to happen?
Hopefully he answers yes and then you ask him to be open and honest about your next question. If he agrees then say would he like to make love to you?
Of course the more direct approach is to say next time you come over don't forget the condoms.
Mark
2006-11-21 11:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by GirlsTellAll.com 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No reason to be in a hurry. He is possibly just shy...my husband took almost a month just to kiss me when we first started going out (we were the same age as you and your boyfriend are when we started dating, and we saw each other nearly every day)...just because it took him that long just to work up the nerve to do it. I thought it was sweet, compared to the groping guys I dated before him. Once your boyfriend gets over his shyness, things will move faster. Just relax and enjoy this time getting to know him without the extra physical stuff.
2006-11-21 11:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by redhairedgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time that you kiss and hug, take it a step further and just start making out with him. If he likes you, then he'll like it and respond by trying to make out with you. If he's too shy to take the first step, then you have to. I'm a guy and I can tell you that it's nice when a girl takes the initiative!
2006-11-21 11:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by isctg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, you should go on more dates after you do that you should tell him well i think we've been going out for a long time and maybe we should take it a step further. Or Try seeing if he feels the same way. Maybe he will you never know. if you really wanna makeout with him then you should say its about time that we take out relationship to the next level - makeing out. Try it i did it before it worked out for me atleast.
2006-11-21 11:36:54 · answer #5 · answered by :-* <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
agree, there is no reason to rush. but only two dates in two months.. there must be something else going on or wrong. maybe he is shy also? or hestiate for some reason. if this is something YOU really want, then you make the first move. create a comforable setting and take it from there. only knowing him for two months, you may want to figure out where he is coming from.
2006-11-21 11:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is make the first move. When you do make that move, make sure that he's completely relaxed, and let mother nature take it's course. If you want things to go further than making out, make sure you are careful.
2006-11-21 11:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe when you see him go over give him a hug and a big kiss. he should know what to do from there. but serious dont rush relationships. sometimes the begining is so nice. and you can never go back to holding hands. that getting to know you stage is awsome and if you rush and miss it you might regret it
2006-11-21 11:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its always important to be open minded when your in a relationship and if thats really somthing you want to do then i think you should sit him down and tell him its sumthing you would like to try or maybe just bring it up while yall r driving or sumthing you know just be straight foward cause im sure hes prob done it before so he shouldnt feel to uncomfortable when/if you do decide to bring it up
2006-11-21 11:37:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no real reason to rush... I'm surprised though, that he hasn't made a move yet..
2006-11-21 11:33:10 · answer #10 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋