This really aggravates me, and i have been browsing some of the answers 2 this question and a lot of guys are saying no means yes, or that females are just playing hard 2 get. What is up with this? Dont u guys understand? Why would u want 2 mentally and physically harm ur gf. In class, I have had guys who have tried 2 touch me in private places, and they just dont seem 2 get the clue. We are not playing with u r teasing u, cant u understand that?
2006-11-21 11:28:59 · 29 answers · asked by chocolatelolita87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you gotta call them out on it or else they will think youre saying "no" in a flirty way that really means "im gonna sound like it makes me mad but i like it!"
2006-11-21 11:31:58 · answer #1 · answered by lala89 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
not all guys are that way. if a man does not take no for an answer then it is consider rape. if a guy keeps touching you in you private areas then i would report him. it does not matter how a woman dresses or acts that does not give a man the right to touch you when you do not want to be touched. report the guy or go fill out a police report then he might straighten up. you can be fixin to have sex and then say no then the man has to stop. go to rapevictims.com and find out more about this.
2006-11-21 11:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Not all guys are like this. I, for one certainly wouldn't do that to anyone. This seems to be a big common problem in the American culture. That "Girls Gone Wild" mentality has given boys the impression that ALL females just a few drinks away from opening themselves up to anyone who's in the area. It's very unfortunate that these guys (whom you have been in contact with) don't seem to understand how rude and wrong it is to touch someone in that way. I wonder how they'd feel if people who they were not interested in did that to them?
2006-11-21 11:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
some guys are dense, if they touch you in private places at school you can legally file sexual harassment charges against the person doing the touching and the school district. There's a good possibility that you could receive a very large monetary settlement
2006-11-21 11:33:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because some idiot long ago made up a stupid rule of thumb and males Young and old choose to believe it. Women want sex as bad as we do! Which is not all that true- women also want to be loved for what they are and think; not only for what they provide.
As long as the male ego treats women as play things- the male ego will choose to believe this foolishness.
2006-11-21 11:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by zipper 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well i don't know what kind of guys you be talking with but pretty much the guys I hung out with or that I meet usually don't try anything until we get to know each other better and they ask if it is okay maybe just maybe you are putting yourself out there for them to do that maybe you dress provocative or something and how old are you and these guys
2006-11-21 11:33:43 · answer #6 · answered by ss18stgang 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Not all guys are like that. The guys you know are what's called "rapists". Rapists don't understand "NO". They think they can do what they want. Any guy who says no means yes is a complete idiot. Stay away from them and tell your principal or dean at your school. Don't let guys think they can get away with being perverts. Please let the appropriate people know!!!!!!!
2006-11-21 11:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by two_kee_kees 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
when you leave puberty, you will find things change, but then there are still dickheads who just dont get it, and girls who laed on with no intention to follow through, and wonder why guys are like that.
your problem is one only of youth. surround yourself with more mature people if you want some respect.
2006-11-21 12:59:22 · answer #8 · answered by SAINT G 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Some girls play too many games with guys. They are thinking that you will change you mind and think that we will allow them to do whatever because we like them
2006-11-21 11:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by Tia Ann 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ok its like with kids or pets if you laugh or giggle while saying it or don't put a serious tone behind it you won't be taken seriously. Say it loud and with intent, then they'll get the point. If they don't leave them alone
2006-11-21 11:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by thousandisland 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I agree that most guys are pigs, but with a username like "chocolate lolita", I can imagine that it is your behavior that is leading to a lot of your problems with guys.
2006-11-21 11:33:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋