my ex boyfriend of 5 months asked me if he could go out with my best friend. i am completely over him and we are just great friends but 4 some reason im not ok with him wanting to go out with my bestie and i dont no y. mayb its because i no that she is desperate and will just use him but i just cant stand the thought of them together. why do u think this is? also what should i do? should i say yes and keep them happy or should i say no 4 my own good? i dont no what to do anymore? any ideas?
2006-11-21 11:23:58 · 11 answers · asked by becstar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're really good friends with your Ex .... warn him what this girl is like ... don't say no otherwise you may lose both of them as friends ....
2006-11-21 11:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it because there are secrets that you told her that she might tell him. That is your ex for a reason and she knows that, it like sleeping with her Why, is she wanting your ex, can't she find someone else
2006-11-21 19:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by Tia Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one, let them do their thing. sure, ur bestie is desperate but maybe warn him so he knows ahead of time. it shouldn't bother u and if ur bestie chooses a guy over u, she's not a bestie whatsoever. go on w/ your life and do what you have to do. don't let little things like that bother you.
2006-11-21 19:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by Viv 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Friends never date exes.
2006-11-21 19:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by samssculptures 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, the best friend is pushing it a little. Just ask him if he'd settle for an acquaintance.
2006-11-21 19:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i no how u feel. and i am soo sorry. this has happened to me sooo many times its scary. tell ur friend how u feel. she prolley wont listen though. lol just ask ur really good old bf out b4 she does. good luck. u will need it!!
2006-11-21 19:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are really over him let them make their own mistakes. say fine, but dont come running to me if things go bad/
2006-11-21 19:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 your bestie 1st c if what she thinks of him
2006-11-21 19:26:12 · answer #8 · answered by Furious with America 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're uneasy because it's the rule between best friends. you don't date your best friend's ex. period.
2006-11-21 19:26:37 · answer #9 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friends don't date exes, period.
I CANNOT believe he even asked you!
2006-11-21 19:25:42 · answer #10 · answered by HiKo73 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋