why do men like to play around with a girls feelings?

Question

cause i dont find what possibly the fun of doing that could be.. do you find it funny playing with someones feelings?

whats up with that..
men like that are not meant to be called men, they are to be called pigz (i think a pig is better)

Answer 1

Natalie,

I am dictating a response from my pet vietnamese pot bellied pig, named Gordon.

Gordon, in sign language, says "I heard that you had compared players to pigs. I have a long history of monogamous relationships. I do not play with peoples feelings. I am tired of people dissing pigs. If you come near my hood, Ill bite your ***."

Now I will turn off my computer so that Gordon, whom I have taught to type, cannot report your question as abuse and a violation of the Yahoo Community Guidelines.

Next time dont set out to offend pigs.

Answer 2

Men do not view the world in the same manner as women. For starters, in western society a "man" isn't suppose to show any emotion that may hint at weakness. Women on the other hand are allowed by western society to show any emotion they want at any given time. So when a woman is displaying an emotion that is socially unacceptable for a man to show, then he can't really sympathize or do much of anything, especially in public. What he tries to do is "pass on what he knows" by trying to drop the hint that you need to "suck it up, and deal with it," because that's what expected of him. Often times this is interpreted by women as being cruel, while the man is hoping for the woman to start acting "normal" and start tucking those "weak" emotions away.

Second, because men do not deal with all of the emotions that they may feel themselves, they generally do not have the "know-how" when it comes to dealing with a woman's emotions. What may be a natural assumption for you will leave a man in utter confusion. He doesn't know that eating ice cream, watching some good movies, and bad-mouthing the person who called you something horrible at work is how you "get over it." If someone called him a horrible name at work he can do one of two things, called them something horrible in return or shrug it off as no big deal.

It's often helpful for the woman to take the time to explain to her man what causes her to feel certain ways and what are some things you do to feel better. You can't expect the man to "put the clues together" and figure this all out. They'd much rather if you just explained it to them directly as the "situation" occurs in a step-by-step fashion (preferably with pad and pen in hand). Also, if you could tell the man that a hug will generally make you feel a little bit better as you "sort things out," then he'll gladly do that as well. Men really do want to help, but they really can't tear themselves from their upbringing either. You'll have to meet in the middle somehow. Help him to figure you out. It'll be much faster for both of you.

Answer 3

All men are not pigs. All men do not play with your heart. But ladies don't you hate that you have to go through so many creeps to get to a good man? Be patient and stop looking a good guy. He will be here when the time is right and you will definitely see him for who he is. Make sure you are ready

Answer 4

From a man's perspective:

You seem to be under the impression that we want to play some kind of game. The real answer, is that the men aren't even considering what you are feeling. They are just doing what they do because they want to, with not a thought given to you.

Do you think if they were actually considering your feelings, they'd do the stupid crap they do?

Answer 5

Maybe your Girl is really insecure with herself and this is why she needs many men friends. But If she isnt devoted to your relationship then it wont work. Age is also a really big factor. The Younger women are the more freedom they want as far as going out and things so really it all comes down to what you are ready to put up with for the sake of your relationship

Answer 6

Some nice looking men, that girls always go after them where ever they are and men like these things, if they play with girls feelings they'll come back and if they don't they got heaps other girls that likes them and sometimes they want to show off to they friends.

Answer 7

Depends on the age of the guy. Really, when maturity kicks in then the games tend to lessen. If you don't like games, tell them up front what you expect out of the relationship. They can't read your mind any more than you can read theirs, so spell it out....
EG: I don't like guys who......(says they love u just to get into bed),..... (watch porn all the time),.....(tell a girl they will call and then don't),...... get the idea???
Guys usually don't have a clue how to talk or treat a woman, so its up to you to let them know what is acceptable and what isn't. If they don't like your views, then move on.... you can't change them, but some are mouldable... but if that doesn't work, then find someone else...guys are like busses, theres another one along every 15 minutes!!

Answer 8

The problem is lack of communication? I really think you are right; some men like to play but some girls like to play also

Answer 9

True not all men are like that. Somehow we allow men to treat us in that manner. The best thing to do is put your foot down and don't accept that kind of treatment from anyone.

Answer 10

I see so many of these kinds of questions on Yahoo Answers, and my first response is always, "Who are these people?" How is it that so many people end up in these shallow, destructive, juvenile relationships?

Grown up men don't purposely set out to play with women's feelings. Mature women don't do that to men, either.

If you're in relationship like that, get out of it... and for God's sake... find a mate who's grown up! ...Just make sure that you're mature enough to keep up your end.