my boyfriend is really great..only he keeps asking me to kiss him. i say no and he says ok...but he keeps asking. we have been going out for 2 1/2 months, so is it wrong for me to say no. plus he asks me at school, so i really dont want my first kiss to be w/ a whole bunch of ppl around...but everyone at my school kisses. im so confused
2006-11-21 11:15:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are not ready there is nothin wrong with that. The first kiss should be special and if your not ready it wont be special. Others may be kissing already but half of them proubly gave in to pear preasure becuase they figured everyone else was doing it. Dont be afraid to stand your ground. Always listen to your heart. If you do it just to make him happy he will think that anything he wants he will eventually be able to make you give in and thats not the kind of girl you want to be. Be proud of yourself for standing your ground.
2006-11-21 11:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on how old u are Sarah. U don't have to do anything that makes you feel wrong or u think is not right. It will be tough standing up for what u believe in but stay strong and your friends will respect u more.
You may be at an age where kissing a boy right now is still inappropriate. today all kids especially boys are rushing and learning about relationships way too fast cause of tv, movies and commercials that exploit young kids like us. trust me - the same thing happened to a friend of mine last year. her boyfriend was pushing her to kiss and stuff and she said no. well her boyfriend was a jerk and dumped her and started saying bad things about her that were not true. we stayed strong and as time passed - that boy got in trouble with another girl (i'll spare u the details cause i don't know how old u are) and they were both expelled from school.
Kisses are so special - is it worth spoiling the fun and ruining your life?
2006-11-21 19:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
21/2 months and no not even a kiss? G.D.! what do you do all day?! umm.. ok. set up a meating. somewhere private. give him the best kiss ever. put a friend on stand-by so she can walk in if things get to serious. pretend surprised and a little angry. if he wants to continuu, tell him you`re too mad right now and ask him to leave. good luck. keep the control on you`re side.
2006-11-21 19:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't kiss him if it doesn't feel right. You don't want your first kiss to be something that u were pushed into. Ur first kiss is something that u will remember for the rest of ur life. Make sure that it is the right time...the right guy...and u feel like u want to kiss him not that u need to.
2006-11-21 19:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by CantTouchThis22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All relationships have their ups and downs. If you truly want the relationship to succeed you and your boyfriend need to talk it through. Simply express your concerns and if he is not willing to agree to a mutual end result than perhaps he is not the one for you.
Don't be in a hurry to keep up with the rest of the crowd. You will benefit more if you enjoy life at your own pace, as opposed to living to fulfill the life of another.
Enjoy Life,
BirdDog
2006-11-21 19:32:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just do it. It may not be your dream first kiss, but it'll still be great.
Feel happy for yourself. My first kiss was when i was 2. I came home and told my mom the boy next door put his tongue in my mouth and laid on top of me. He was 4.
2006-11-21 19:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by kissamoose217 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if you have 2 months going out with him then yes something is wrong i kissed my boyfriend the first day he asked me out.but if you like to wait go for it but it will probably no be as special as you think leave the waiting for some other more valuable things.
2006-11-21 19:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by cosita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say stick to your gut and dont do it!! why do something your not comfortable doing!! and a kiss should be between u n ur bf, not u n the WHOLE school!! N realtionships are about bein close, so maybe ur not ready to have a bf at all, but u should know what's right for u.but i say break up with him n dont kiss him!!
2006-11-21 19:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by asi soy YO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how is it that you've been dating for 2 1/2 months and y'all have never kissed? Trust me the first is the most nerve racking...after that, it's a lot of fun!
2006-11-21 19:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by birdbeach19 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
For a guy, 2 1/2 months is a long wait. But... he should plain respect your values. If he doesn't, may be time to find someone who does.
2006-11-21 19:18:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋