This girl and i have went on a few dates. now she tells me she's not ready for a relationship. I said i would wait but how long should i wait before it's probably not gonna happen. She says she's not sure when, mabey in a few months but not sure when.
2006-11-21 11:10:49 · 22 answers · asked by Q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im only telling you this because you were so honest and I am a woman who has done this exact same thing...
When she says she is not ready for a relationship, this more then likely means she is not wanting a relationship with you. I have used this excuse as a way to let a guy down gently. My advice is to not wait around for her. Enjoy your life and meet and date other people and if by chance she does come around, if you are already smitten with someone else, dont feel bad, it was her decision.
2006-11-21 11:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by babyj248 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't know and that is her right. You wait as long as you feel like waiting and then you move on if she is still not ready. With this response I think I would move on because she might need time or she might just not be that into you
2006-11-21 19:13:38 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you like her and she's worth it, respect her. She will come to you when she is ready, and she will most likely think about this nonstop. Wait, and maybe date a few other people, but keep her a likely person on your list. It could be a week, a month, or a year, most likely a month. Just be patient. ;)
2006-11-21 19:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by eratomo9 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should wait until she's ready for a relationship. If you really do care about her, you should wait for her. If it takes too long for her to realize her true feelings about you, maybe she's just not the right one.
2006-11-21 19:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by katara653719 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Live your life. Don't sit around waiting for her. Maybe somewhere down the road you two will be on the same page. But until then keep your eyes open for other possibilities.
2006-11-21 19:13:41 · answer #5 · answered by Icky B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to wait for her to be ready, just make sure that she KNOWS that you like her. If you know any of her friends let it be known to them that you like her too. You just need her to be ready. And make sure her claim for waiting is legit, and just not a cover. If you push it things can go sour...i know...
You just need to reassure her that you are there for her and willing to wait as long as she wants, that really shows her that she cares...i waited 6 months before my gf got around to going out with me. It all depends on how your dedication to her is, if its strong and your willing to wait, then take all the time you need, especially if you think shes the one.
2006-11-21 19:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by onilink03 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are you waiting for? Most women who they want to be with by the second date. We plan, our future dates. She has something else on her mind and it is not you. You can hang around but I would still keep my options open.
2006-11-21 19:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by Tia Ann 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
life is too short. Take it from a girl. Don't hold or wait unless you'vebeen togeathr for a while and are willing to wait.
2006-11-21 19:13:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The girl wants to have fun so have fun with her for now dating is a relationship, even if it is a few dates.
2006-11-21 19:14:29 · answer #9 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a polite way of saying " I want a relationship but not with you." MOVE ON If she thinks it over and changes her mind, she knows your cell number. Otherwise, get back out there!
2006-11-21 19:15:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋