Please I want you guys tell me the reason for a guy to be very cold on bed and never ask to make love... thnx
2006-11-21 11:05:44 · 7 answers · asked by Casey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are trying, if he knows you are willing and able and he still doesn't want to have anything with you there's something definitely wrong with him.
Ask him, and listen carefully to what he says and what he doesn't say (don't try to listen for the answer you want to hear). The things he says just like the things he leaves out are important. Trust your gut and if it sounds like BS, smells like BS then it's probably BS.
Be glad you are not married (the rules changes after that) because someone that's not doing it for you in the bedroom is not the complete package so you need to find that person that's the complete package for you, you owe it to yourself. So if after you talk to him he doesn't try harder, you'll know what to do.
Good luck!
2006-11-21 11:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by crazy_monkey_jr010 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm presuming that you had a type O and you ment why is a guy so cold IN bed? Bit general question. Could be any number of reasons. If you are in a long term relationship and he has never been interested in having sex with you then I would presume that he just IS NOT interested in you period. So move on and find someone new.
If this is a new relationship, then maybe he is shy. Maybe he wants you to make the first move so he doesn't feel like he is pressuring you to have sex. So roll over and give him a squeeze and see if he responds. If he doesn't, then open your mouth and ASK him why he doesn't want to have sex! If you can't talk about sex, then you shouldn't be trying to have any.
If his hormones are working, if he isn't on drugs or drinking to much to make his equipment not work, then you have to look at the option that he may be gay and just not into you.
2006-11-21 19:19:09 · answer #2 · answered by redneon3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be bored or cheating. If bored learn some new tricks quick. Get tapes, read, lick him whatever if you want to keep him. If you find out he is cheating life is to short to die from AIDS. Dump him.
2006-11-21 19:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by fiveninebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's gay.
Your just a friend sharing a bed.
He doesn't like you that way.
Low Low sex drive.
You don't do it for him when it comes to sex.
2006-11-21 19:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by just1more 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think of why just get rid of him. He's either gettingsome elsewhere, gay,just a plain jerk or he just isn't that into you. Let him go.
2006-11-21 19:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by thousandisland 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be many things. the guy may be too tired, may be getting it somewhere else, or maybe not attraced to you. you should try asking him what's going on
2006-11-21 19:09:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably isn't THAT into you anymore.
2006-11-21 19:09:04 · answer #7 · answered by liss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋