why is that nobody likes me?

Question

i don't have any friends nor a boyfriend. i hang out by myself and go places alone everyday all day. please help.

Answer 1

Maybe the problem is that you just don't talk much or show that you're a great person. Try to find someone that you can have a conversation with and you'll have you some friends. I'll be your friend so you will have someone to write to. Email me sometimes. [e-mail] I'll write you to see how things are going in your life and we can get to know eachother. Oh yeah, i know your bf will come just give it time and he'll come and he'll treat you wonderful. Try to talk some at school or something. Oh yeah, yes i'm over 15! So your not writing to a little 10year old girl.

Answer 2

Ok, I'll try to help...

It may be just the fact that people don't feel you're approachable. If you're always by yourself and doing activities by yourself, people may think it's because other people find you hard to approach, or maybe they find it to be so themselves. They may also feel that maybe you like your solitude. Seeing as i don't know you personally I could be totally off. However, maybe if you tried to be more outgoing and maybe joined a club/team/sport/group/etc ...that has to deal with something that interests you, you'll be able to find other people out there with similar/the same interests. I'm a senior in high school, and I've never had a boyfriend, and it wasn't really until this year that I started getting out there and getting myself involved in everything I could (things from iceskating to secretary of the national honors society) before I go off to college. I've made a lot more friends, still no bf, but I've been enjoying my new found confidence and "outgoing-ness". I've learned that one key "ingredient" to social survival is self-confidence, if you believe in yourself, others will follow!

Hmmm, sry about writing a novel, but I hope this helps, because I've been going through a similar thing in my life over the past 4 years, so I totally understand (at least I think i do...lol).

Answer 3

Well are you scared to go up and talk to someone? If you aren't then you should try and make friends by just...you know going up to someone and casually start a conversation about homework or another subject.Or you could simply wave or smile at someone and if they wave back or smile back...hey there is a chance! If you ever need anyone to talk to just email me at:[e-mail]! Good Luck!!

-Ashlee

Answer 4

maybe you aren't looking for the right kinds of friends. Figure out what you like to do and join a club....that is a great way to meet people with similar interests.

Good luck

Answer 5

Well try hangin out with people or asking someone out if your fat your going to have to be really nice since most people in america judge by looks if you have acne try to use cover up but seriously humor and being nice are waaaaaaay more important

Answer 6

it seems to me you seem comfy being invisible but if thats not the case , stop wining and get out there in the world ! introduce yourself you'll find that you will make more friends than sitting in a chair talking on the computer!!!

Answer 7

you're probably just shy. Try talking to people, but be yourself. People can tell when you're are trying to hard and when you're being fake. As for a boyfriend, give it time.

Answer 8

Use the Internet.
Get involved with some chat groups that share your same interests.
Try yahoo groups even.
People do like you, you just havn't met them yet! :)

Answer 9

Tough question... questions that ask why are always tough. The person that can answer that best is you because you know yourself better than anybody else.

Answer 10

Thats hard. i've been through that so i know. maybe your to quiet. try talkin to someone or just bein freindly. doesnt have to be someone major cool. just hi to people smile and people will come to u.