I'm nervous, there's a guy that I'm pretty sure likes me, and I like him. I want to ask him to the dance, and I want to do it in person.. but.. I don't know what to say, because I've never done this sort of thing before.. help!
2006-11-21 10:55:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should do it now before another girl asks him. just walk up to him when hes alone and ask him. if he says no, then oh well. just hurry up!
2006-11-21 11:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by ianaday4 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should go over to him and ask can you talk to him for a second and then explain to him that you like him and then say in a nice way would you like to go to the dance with me. Take a deep breath before doing this.
2006-11-21 19:01:04 · answer #2 · answered by catdanpri 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow! i've never known someone like me!!! well i would go up to him and say.....hi do you want to go out with me to the dance? just practice saying it. and when you really know you're ready just go to him when there is absoulutely no one in sight around him. if he says "no" or "i'm going with someone else" don't be embarrassed because it won't be the end of your life. I hope it works 'cause i never talked to my crush before but i am willing to do it.
2006-11-21 19:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by MJ is Kewl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate it when girls seem like they are going to ask me something, then don't ask me... Simply go up to him when he is by himself, and ask who he is going to dance with? That way isn't very confrontational - he has the option of saying 'nobody, or I don't know', and if he says that, it isn't outright rejection.
But if you say 'want to go to the dance with me?' he might say no, and that could crush you.
2006-11-21 19:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by Johnny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him who he is going to the dance with? Then if he says no one, tell him no one has asked you yet! He will get the idea you are available.
2006-11-21 18:58:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
just ask him....its just a dance, tell him hey i just want to know if we're going with anyone to the dance & if he says no y? then just tell him cuz i really wanted to go with u, & tell him that u were thinking that ur going to have a better time with him.....hope this works & just be urself & have fun
2006-11-21 19:00:31 · answer #6 · answered by ~i love my boys~ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its always easier said then done but here you go...
"Hey, how are you doing? You going to the dance? No? Me neither..hey, want to go together?"
Bada Bing!
2006-11-21 18:59:32 · answer #7 · answered by zards 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well just put on some clothes you feel really pretty on and ask him all flirty: so... you got a date for the dance? if he says no then say: ohh me neither, we should go together. lol! i think that you wont even need to say that, hell ask you out.
If he has a date dont worry, say: oh me too!!! and be happy about it.
2006-11-21 19:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by Baby Doña! 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You should just try to ask him casually. try not to get nervous while your asking just be brave calm and if he says no just be okay until he can't see you anymore and if he says yes then your good!
2006-11-21 19:00:39 · answer #9 · answered by Ci Ci 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well it might help if u have a class or somethin with him u can maybe start a little flirting between u too and that might give the courage to ask him or he might ask u first
2006-11-21 19:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by Theresa J 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋