So you think I should gain weight?

Question

There were some guys who liked me in 7th grade and in 8th grade I started to become anorexic but some of them still liked me.Now,in 9th grade they really don't like me anymore and is being thin unattractive.Most of the black guys don't like skinny girls they like the ones with meat on their bones.But I still don't feel convinced to gain weight.

One time this boy aked this boy who used to like me if he still liked me and he said "No,I don't like that anorexic b****".

That really hurts.

Answer 1

Well, why did you become this in the first place? Eat some fried chicken and drink some beer.

Answer 2

If you're actually anorexic you should be a bit more concerned with your health than what the guys think. Forget what they like. If you like being skinny be skinny. If you want to be a little thicker then do it. But in the end be healthy! Always be healthy! You'll be a lot happier and that's when the guys will come around.

Answer 3

This is the most rediculas thing to be worried about. Anorexia is a retarded disorder that stupid people have. Why would you be dumb enough to stop eating in order to look the way you want?

That is the dumbest thing ever. There are countries that hunger and famine is a huge problem. You should be happy that one thing America gets right is that thier people need to be fed.

I don't think that you need to gain or lose weight. You do need to eat regularly. If you deny your body its need to eat then your body will start having problems. One thing you need to learn is that there is someone that will care for you no matter how you look. If you are soooo unhappy with your body that you want to lose weight then get your azz in a gym and lose it the correct way.

Why are you worried what the black guys want? Is that who you want to ask you out? That is rediculas. Maybe one day in your life you will realize that there are much bigger problems than these.

Answer 4

sweetie, if you are depriving yourself of food to stay thin at this young age, you should stop and take a good look at yourself. yes, being thin is great, but there is a huge difference between thin, skinny, and anorexic. boys do not like the skin and bones. besides, treat your body well, don't do anything just for anyone else. show some pride and love for yourself and try to put just a few pounds back on....

Answer 5

First of all, please see a doctor who will determine if you are underweight or not. If you are, please seek help. Being anorexic is not a joke ... YOU COULD DIE FROM IT, HONEY. Don't do that to your family. GET HELP IMMEDIATELY. Obviously, you are very young and you cannot afford not to eat healthy. You are growing and need all the nutrients for healthy bones and body. The fact that you are not yet convinced that you should gain weight may be a sign that you are anorexic. Good luck to you.

Answer 6

Listen, first of all not just black guys like girls with healthy bodies. I would have to say there is a huge majority of men who go absolutey Ape S**t over a woman with nice curves. Gain some weight and shape it up and you will notice a HUGE turnaround.

Answer 7

i know what it feels like to have problems with your weight.
i used to have incredible abs.
but i was like ohh im sooo fatt.
so i didnt eat much.
guess what happened?
lost all my muscle and it became fat.
goodbyeee lovley abs.
first see if your brave enough to tell your parents if you havent done so.
theyll probably take you to a nutritionist.

why does being underweight suck?
your at higher risk of painful bone fractures and depression.
but if your normal for at lower risk for depression,diabetes and heart disease.
id go with the normal weight.

find out why you went anorexic.
for yourself?
for boys?
for peers?
if for yourself, then heres the truth.
youll never be skinny enough.
you probably dont dislike your weight, but actually dislike you.
for guys?
survey said they like them to be normal.
being stick thin was voted the least attractive.
including overweight!!
for peers?
a ton of people include skinny girls to founded annoying.trueee thatt!!

how to gain weight?
eat 2000 calories daily.
excericse only for 3 times a week or less.
my i also suggust you consider getting a personal trainer?
my brothers one and he says he can have some one gain weight in muscle,not fat!! in about 3 weeks!!
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good luckk!!
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Answer 8

Honey, forget about the boys, do what's right for YOU. Anorexia is a form of self-hatred... do you really think being skinny or fat makes you a better or worse person, more or less worthy of being loved?

Please please please talk with your doctor or school counselor about anorexia. Try to think more about what's healthy rather than skinny/fat, and aim to reach and maintain a healthy weight for your body. Learn to love the body you have, rather than forcing it to be something else. A healthy person who's comfortable in their own body is the most attractive thing in the world... and despite what these stupid immature boys might say, they instinctively will admire your real body and your confidence.

Answer 9

i am sure you are beautiful the way you are, you didnt have to go like skinny, cz admit it, it isnt hot or nice at all, its scary. so try to gain some weight, nothing wrong in that, u can eat while going to gym the same time. im sure u will look great and that guy who said about u that horrible thing, will just regret for saying this after seeing the great changes in you ! now go girl

Answer 10

Everyone I know looks past weight. Anyone who is concieted enough to say, "I would go out with her if she was skinnier" needs to grow up. I actually like a guy on the more weighty side, and I'm still a normal weight.

The thing I can say is, if you are REALLY skinny like most anorexic or bulemic people are, people are too afraid. When they see you, they see how your bones poke out, it freaks them out!

What I can say is, too much weight or regular weight, no one cares too much. They just like someone who is... them!

Answer 11

Being anorexic is gross... Noone likes to see bones sticking out & yeah, guys definitely love something to hug or grab.