There's this guy on my swim team who's two years older than me. I'm a freshman and he's a junior. He's offered me rides many times and stayed with me while I was waiting for my ride once although my coach was still there waiting with me also. Once at a swim meet, he kept bringing up guys who are on the team and asking if I liked any one of them. He gives me compliments about things and when this other girl on my swim team asked him to go with her to homecoming as friends he said yes. When she was telling me about it. He came up and jokingly asked me if I was jealous. I think it's over a 6 month period that he did all this. At homecoming he complimented me on how I looked and asked if I came with a date. He asked me about the guys I danced with. But when we email he usually gives 5 word answers and I know he's really nice to everyone.One night it was cold and I waited in his car until my mom came. But it was awkward and didn't seem like he was putting in much effort for a conversation.
2006-11-21 10:46:49 · 15 answers · asked by Olivia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I told him that I liked him through email and all he replied was "at least you are honest :)". I personally don't think things are looking too good. What do you think?
2006-11-21 10:47:53 · update #1
Sounds like he's just a sweet guy looking/wanting to be nothing but friends.
2006-11-21 10:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by awesome 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest...he seemed a little psycho to me. If you like a girl, you talk to them and compliment them and try to impress them but there is no reason why he should be asking you about the other guys all the time and if you are jealous. This makes him seem a control freak and I would only advice you to steer clear of him, when it's still team. I can bet that when he sees that he is losing his hold on you, he will try to win you back and even threaten you, insult you or harass you and adopt every means to stop your from straying away. If he does that, run. Report to your parents and cops. You can try straying away, see his reactions and if he still seems to be a nice guy after a year or two, you were always friends.
2006-11-21 10:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like it's time to play "hard to get".. but wait. not to play games w/ his mind.. it's cuz the longer u get "attached" to him, and yearn for him, the more u are Putty in his hands, and HE is playing you a fool!
so, my advice to u would just to be friendly..act like u didn't say Anything about liking him! just be nice, to Everyone. make lotsa new friends, study hard , be busy w/ schoolwork and friends and activities at school..take some classes, join some sports, etc... obviously u are in swim so that is good. remember, u are a freshman so he might be a bit "awkward" of the idea on dating u, so u gotta be a Happy, Positive, Beautiful, AWESOME girl, and if he lets u go, that's his bad! i think he's unsure about his feelings, and if u go after him he may lose interest, thinking ur too easy to get, etc...what about all the other girls in school u know?
so, like i said, just keep working on URSELF. make urself happy and positive and just have fun with life and school~ that way, u won't be sad if u don't get him, and also, u are more attractive to others in general. good luck! :)
2006-11-21 10:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have no longer something to do with one yet another...if that became the case, children which have yeast infections have some huge complications! My little sister is 11 and has had fairly some yeast infections! and that i comprehend that female isn't messing round! i'm 30 and performance 2 youngsters...I had my first yeast an infection preggo with my oldest....declaring that a yeast an infection will be brought about by no longer having an orgasm or will be cured by having one is like declaring that you'll be able to fix your leaky kitchen sink by fixing the tire on your acquaintances backyard tractor.....yeah.....or declaring that 2+2=chair...they have no longer something to do with one yet another...
2016-11-29 08:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know 2 years isnt that big of difference, but he could be looking at you like a little sister. If you told him that you liked him and
he hasnt asked you out......then let it go and just be his friend.
Also, it is possible that he does like you, but as a junior it isnt really "cool" to date freshmen.
Either way.......you told him how you feel. It is up to him to make
a move if he wants to. Dont chase him or bring it up again...that will just make you look like a love sick puppy.... not really a good thing. :-)
Good luck
2006-11-21 10:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by Trish 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He could want friendship. Nothing wrong with that. Some of the best relationships start through friendship.
2006-11-21 10:58:35 · answer #6 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys don't like to write at all, my highschool sweetheart write me 5 1 sent letters all though our 3 years together... 3 of them were christmas cards... but i knew he loved me all the same....he def sounds interested or at least cares enuf to not want to leave you alone.....he has a interest in you somehow, it' sup to you to feel it out to what it is.
2006-11-21 10:52:32 · answer #7 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just wants to be your friend. You gave him a chance to open up when you told him you liked him and he didn't. I think he likes it that you have a crush on him but he is just not into you like that.
2006-11-21 10:59:04 · answer #8 · answered by horsecrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you but he doesn't want to admit and if he doesn't admit soon or ask you out i would move on.
2006-11-21 10:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by babygirl100% 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is just friendly and that's all.
2006-11-21 10:50:08 · answer #10 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋