what should i do i have a crush on a teacher at my school i really love him i have feelings that i have never had for anyother ale before. this is my first major crush and i flert with him which some people think is wrong but he will flert back it is just a friendly flert. i always take time to say hi to him. i always talk to him about anything from the clothes he wears and the way he cuts his hair. but i am pretty sure that he knows i have a crush on him since i am not good at hiding it and i always give him flowers and stuff like that. and next year he may not be at our school i am am wondering do you think i should tell him at the end of year if i know for sure that he wont be back because if i dont tell him i will feel really bad and sad. should i tell him, i want to.
2006-11-21 10:34:38 · 22 answers · asked by goldenball 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave the teacher alone, and find someone your own age. You could ruin this teachers life, with your actions and behaviors which are totally uncalled for and adolescent. God bless****
2006-11-21 10:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I've liked some of my teachers... but you are going way overboard. Giving him flowers???? ??????????? Tone it down a little bit, and more than likely you will like somebody different in a couple of weeks. But if I saw 1 teacher that I liked, I would ask her out right away. But it was 6 years ago that I was in 10th grade, so it wouldn't be so bad now.
Eventually, your classmates will begin to make fun of you and not like you because you are trying to be that way with your teacher. And after he leaves, it will follow YOU around for all of high school. Guys will talk about you in the locker room, halls, or even in front of you, mocking you. Even when you are in 12th grade, there will be some in your class that will still remember what you did 4 years ago. Give it up, and start liking Erin Carter or whatever his name is. Teachers are off-limits.
2006-11-21 11:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have to be honest with you. Having any sort of a relationship with a teacher could get him in serious trouble. That's why you're not allowed to be with a teacher, or a boss, because he has certain power over you (grades and such). And unfortunately, he'd be the one to get in trouble, even if you consented. He's older, and he's also a school teacher. They'll blame him and him alone. I think if you really care, that you should forget about it. I know you don't want him to serve jail time for being with you. When you graduate, give it a try, but until then, avoid trouble for him.
2006-11-21 10:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by Raye 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You're in grade 8
You're 14 or will be.
You need to get a grip on what is real vs crush.
Stay away from him for his sake.
This can not harm you at all - but you could ruin his life. Even the suggestion that something is going on could convince your parents to have him fired and his career ruined.
I suspect you aren't that selfish and that you hadn't realized or thought of it in this way.
Direct your energy towards the kid in class who is also smart and will grow into his skin within the next few years... Leave the teacher alone.
2006-11-21 10:43:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well let's see...First of all you're putting this mans whole life and career in jeapordy with this crap. Second, if you tell how you feel and he feels the same then He's a perve and should be locked up somewhere far away from other children. So....what are you thinking.
2006-11-21 10:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most students have crushes on their teachers. It is completely natural. Most teachers already know that at least one student has a crush on them. They are just trying to be nice. If I was I wouldn't tell him because he already knows, and there isn't much use stating the obvious.
2006-11-21 10:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by Alternative Chick 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK it depends how old you are. If you flirt is his body language the same as yours? If you really love him, follow your heart, It may end in tragedy but at least you didn't stand around and do nothing. Don't worry I'm sure that your very pretty and that he likes you^^
2006-11-21 10:58:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-22 12:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by equils 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a crush on a teacher at my school, his name is mr.maynes, don't tell him, and don't give him stuff just friendfully flirt and he will get the clue, and when he leaves, if he sets out tu find you and tell u bye, and how much fun u had that year, he cares
2006-11-21 10:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by blkbelt2004ab 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your a student?....Oh my, we have all had crushes on teachers before...He is way to old for you, and probably has a girlfriend or wife...Nothing could come of this relationship..let it go and try to find a guy your age..
2006-11-21 10:40:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋