just broke up after 6 months why?

Question

met a great girl didnt fall in love straight away, in fact she was more into me at first, after sometime i realised how much i loved her... we have been argueing a bit because our jobs clash, then this weekend she said she had doubts, i didnt want to be made to look a fool so i said lets call it a day, but she then began cying saying she wanted it to work.
we were meeting today for a meal she said she was too tired so i called her and decided to give her an ultimatum , we agreed to finish although this isnt what i want , she said she just needs time but i cant just wait for someone who ist sure...can i?
im truly gutted she was so special to me - i swear as soon as i show interest in a girl and treat them well they lose interest ...

Answer 1

Hmmmm. You don't want to be "made" a fool, yet, you allow yourself to let your pride get in the way of what could be a great relationship.

Straight up dude, you're the one acting the fool.

What she is really saying is that she wants a long term relationship with you. She wants one that is based on mutual respect and one that is healthy and supportive for the both of you.
I'm not trying to be mean here, but, it doesn't sound like you are quite ready/capable of that kind of relationship.

This is where the hard part comes in.
If you want the same kind of relationship that she wants, then tell her so. Realize that a long term relationship takes work, and that you have to better develop your communication skills and perspectives of a man/woman partnership.

If you are not able to give her that, then maybe the best thing to do is to let her go so that she can find happiness.

If you are taking your advice from a bunch of wise@sses who spew some kinda 'how to be da man' BS, you already got it all wrong. That's being a fool.

Answer 2

your doing something wrong...sounds like you have a control issue...dont know without more info