My ex-boyfriend went away for the summer and I found out he cheated me I was crushed. Then one day he came to my school and said in front of everyone "I'm sorry and I love you and I want to be with you." I know he loves me. What should I do?
2006-11-21 10:17:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
everyone deserves a second chance. If you still care for him go out with him for yourself not him, but keep you gaurds up this time. Be prepared to pay him back if it happens again! Hit below the belt this time, so he will learn not do do it to someone else.
2006-11-21 10:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he says, "I love you" in front of everyone, then I think he really loves you. Still, I don't understand why he would cheat on you in the first place, though, if he loves you. But you know guys, whenever a girl is eye-appetizing, boys go ahead and try to get with them. I'm sure he's very sorry that he cheated after coming back and seeing you again. I think he really wants to be with you again, and if I were you, I would take him back....after he can PROVE that he loves you. Invite him over to your house or ask him to go to dinner and then show your best side, and he'll realize you're awesome. Then he might be able to prove he loves you and you can get back with him.
2006-11-21 10:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by tewsimple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him in balls in front of everyone and tell him that you wouldn't go back to him if he was the last loser on earth. If he really loved you, he wouldn't have cheated on you. He doesn't love you, he only wants you back to keep you from going out with someone else. Otherwise he would have asked to get back with you in private instead of being a total drama queen about it.
2006-11-21 10:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should follow your heart. If you still have feelings for him then you should give him another chance. What makes this hard thought is that he cheated on you and you probably think that If you give him another chance will he cheat on me. It is a tough call but follow your heart on this one.
2006-11-21 10:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww...that was sweet. Everybody makes mastakes though...go out with him as a friend for awhile to see what he's about. I f you still feel him like you do and think it can grow and work give him another chance if not let him go.
2006-11-21 10:21:05 · answer #5 · answered by karmelberry 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should NOT be his fallback girl. He may love you- but he did not treat you well, and is obviously neither mature OR trustworthy. There are too many men out there to put up with losers.
2006-11-21 10:24:14 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. If your partner really loved you he wouldn't have cheated
2006-11-21 10:20:39 · answer #7 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i have had a situation similar to that. and i forgave him but i think you should give him another chance because it takes a man to do that in front of people
2006-11-21 10:25:39 · answer #8 · answered by princessg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl no way in hell should you go back to him. I love you stuff is a bunch of bull crap. Honey they all the same. Once a cheater always a cheater!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-21 10:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by babygirl100% 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he is called an ex for a reason however he will need to earn your trust before you can start dating him again so let him earn your trust again and go from there
2006-11-21 10:19:55 · answer #10 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋