Theres a girl at my school that I think might like me. She is a 10 out of 10 but is really shy. Some of really popular guys like her but she doesn't seem to really care about them. She's really quiet except to her friends but she thinks im funny and laughs at most of the stuff that I say or do(not in a mean way) and we've flirted a little bit. It seems like im the only guy she goes out of her way to talk to but when we do its a little bit akward since we like really don't know eachother very well. How can I tell if she likes me or not and if she does then how can I make things less akward and eventully get her to be my gf?
2006-11-21 10:15:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be honest and don't rush into things.. if she really enjoys your company you'll know.. as you already do. be patient and enjoy flirting and discussion. good relationships start with simple things. i find it a pleasant situation that could become whatever you both want it to be. give yourself and the girl time to feel comfortable and know its other better
2006-11-21 10:28:28 · answer #1 · answered by tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way around this. If you think she likes you than ask her to do something with you outside of your regular interaction: movies, coffee. Make it something casual that doesn't necessarily equate romance so you don't have to put everything out there. If she likes you, chances are she'll want to do it. Keep in mind, she may have to get permission from her parents so don't rush to judgement if she says no. Plan for a weekend. You might want to find out more about her though than just what she looks like because thats a pretty shallow interest if its solely based on appearances. She may be shy but shy girls can be just as awful as outgoing girls. Get to know her and then just go from there.
2006-11-21 10:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by namedr0ps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 16 besides. i comprehend precisely what you advise about getting shy round females. I hate it! haha. the perfect element i will inform you is to objective to easily suck it up and initiate making acquaintances ( females), and then construct it up from there. provide up searching for a gf and initiate searching for a reliable friendship with a woman that you'll be able to construct upon. i imagine if you're making some acquaintances then it is going to likely be lots extra uncomplicated which could assist you with courting yet another female. in case you pick to discuss this extra, purely digital mail me :) - Christina
2016-11-29 08:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is coming from a girl who's been labeled "shy" and "quiet" by many people (friends of all ages, teachers, my parents, friends' parents, etc). is there any extracurricular activities you're in that she can also join (if it's not too late)? that way, you can have some time together that won't be too pressured. talk whenever you can, compliment her, get to know who she hangs out with, etc. after some time (you'll have to decide after seeing how it's going and if she still seems to like you), you might be able to ask her out (but let it be casual, both the date and asking her out. I'm sure she wouldn't like it if you were too pushy or whatever asking her or if it's something she finds uncomfortable/boring/stupid, which you should be able to find out from talking to her.)
hope it works out!
2006-11-21 10:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by liz_enator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you talk to her, tell her exactly what you just type here. Let her know that you're interested but that you don't want to "bother her" if she's not interested. I think that might get her more motivated or at least to tell you what the score is. Good luck either way.
2006-11-21 10:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was a shy girl for a while and still am..i would say start having more convos with her and dont make it awrkward for her...like c wat her dislikes r n likes r...dont ask for her number rt away and show n action or n words that u like her..jst not n a perverted way lol..jst b urself..
2006-11-21 10:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by shannon u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be real with her. Nice, funny, smile at her, let her know you are interested in her.
2006-11-21 10:27:31 · answer #7 · answered by angelalovin2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her feel comfortable around u and don't act obnoxious
2006-11-21 10:20:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be with her more often, eventually, I think you guys will get together ^^
2006-11-21 10:20:41 · answer #9 · answered by Neji H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is her name Jennifer, by any chance?
2006-11-21 10:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋