What do I need to attract a girl..if I'm very shy!!?

Question

I'm 16 and I am very shy...I need ideas, help, advice?!!

Answer 1

I'm assuming you have someone in mind, right? First of all, if I were you, I'd go for the girls that were sort of like me; a little shy. It will be easier for you to approach. Also, you have to have a few tricks up your sleeve. Here's what I mean: carry around a roll of candy in your pocket (not mints, she'll think she has bad breath!), approach the girl when she's alone. Here is the line: Hi, you look like you could use one of these. If she takes the candy, say "I'm Bob, I gotta go, but will you be around here tomorrow?" If she doesn't take it, so what? Move down the line. You just need to be one-on-one with the girl because it's too hard trying to talk to her and have a bunch of people around. You could start saying "hi, Stacey" to someone every day and smiling. Everytime you see her "Hi, Stacey". Eventually, she'll find out who you are and will be returning" Hi Bob". Then look for an opportunity to be alone with her. Ask her where she likes to have lunch: "ME TOO! How about we meet there this Saturday for lunch?" (you buy) It's only lunch. You'll be alone for a couple of hours and you'll know if she likes you enough to go on a real date. OK..I have a million of 'um, but that's enough for now. Oh...learn to dance! And...girls LOVE shy guys! Godloveya.

Answer 2

This is a very common question, but very understandable! The trick first is to get rid of a little bit of that shyness, and show just the slightest bit of will to participate in conversations with girls, even if it's just the short "hello" or wave. Not sure if you're trying to attract anyone in particular, but if you are, and they seem approachable, why not drop in with a greeting? "Hi, what's up?" Also, be confident in your hello. Really, getting started on a little idle talk with whomever you like, not only girls, but friends too, will improve your overall image and make you a little more extroverted! After a while, these "Hellos" and "How're you doing"s will come out easily and subjects of conversation will become a little more sophisticated.

Trust me dude, you don't have to be afraid of anyone. They're only human, just like you. And humans communicate, naturally. Don't be shy! And smile. :)

Answer 3

Just let it all hang lose and forget about what can happen. Be your self 100% and that will attract chicks. You don't have to be a really outgoing guy to get a hot girl you just need to act like a man and not a pussy. go to www.becomeaplayer.com to get info on getting that girl.

Answer 4

Im 16 and im very shy and im after a shy gal. If you wanna get to know her then tell her friends to introduce you to her. Then later on you gotta speak up. Trust me, its workin for me.

Answer 5

ok. first of all.. talk to her! email/ IM/ call her too. but not too much. you dont want to seem like a stalker but you want to seem like you care.

develop a friendship with her. be really nice to her.

smile at her. be sweet. but don't giggle or anything too girly, kuz then she'll think of you more like one of her girl friends.

i dont know if all girls like this, but be sarcastic. but not too mean!! make it funny, not cruel. girls LOVE guys who can make them laugh. also, dont cuss too much, if you do. it's ok to do it a little but don't make every other word "beep"

i know this might be hard if your shy, but look her straight in the eye. but not in a creepy way. just study her eyes while you look at her, kinda.

it's a major turn on to smell good. nothing too strong though, just wear deoderant (obvioulsy) and maybe a little axe or tab stuff. :)

try to be around her a lot. sit next to her, or stand next to her in line.

make sure you look nice around her. i dont mean you have to change your whole appearance, but don't wear dirty or wrinkled shirts. don't leave your hair the same way it is when you wake up, and try to always match.

one fabulous way to kinda "go out" with her is if you invite a bunch of ppl to the movies or something & then just call her & say "yeah, me and somone and someone and someone are going to the movies on friday. ya wanna come?" she'll most likely say yes.

all those things work, but you can never forget the classic flirting tecnique: tease her! dont be TOO annoying, but poke some fun at her every now and then. not only will this let her know your interested, it'll make her think about you.

once you think you guys are friends, try to make it apparent that you like her. if she stays the same, she probably likes you back. if she backs off she probobly doesnt, so dont waste your time on her.

hope i helped :)

Answer 6

Don't worry, just stick with your personality. I actually once fell completely in love with a boy who was outrageously shy, but then he changed, and he became more outgoing, and I wasn't attracted to him after that.

Believe me, there are girls who think that shyness is very, very charming. =)

Answer 7

I don't really know because some people like shy guys

Answer 8

Money will get their attention every time. Dress sharp and turn your shyness into a hard to get guy. Girls will be fighting over you if they think they can't have you. Don't wait too long before you grab one though as they may see Thur your plan and then you will end up alone again.

Answer 9

continue to act shy because girls, like shy & quiet! However you should not dress shy! Dress a bit hip & get some bling bling....

Answer 10

always be yourself. do not be somebody your not. the girl will or won't like you for you. go up to the girl you like and start out with small talk or write her a letter. if she likes you will let you know.