What would be you main immediate concern, not only in their qualities but what you were looking for in general. I am interested in what the immediate goals are, clearly that changes...Interested in those older than 18, male or female....thanks...
2006-11-21 10:10:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personality. If they have a good personality that will make you want to get to know more about them. Ask simple questions you can learn a lot from them. Things like Chocolate or Vanilla ice cream, do you drink coffee, do you have siblings and are you close, sunrise or sunset, favorite kind of music, do you like to read, what's your favorite movie.... etc. It's the little things that count.
2006-11-21 10:16:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I usually define what I am looking for as I get to know a person. Assuming that I am attracted to them at the start (or else why would I be seeing them?) I look for wit/humor and intelligence. Goals change al the time, but they need to have interests that are well, interesting.
Someone who is living their lives.
I don't look for someone who has things all mapped out and planned - but that's just me.
2006-11-21 18:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by slipstreamer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What I would look for...
Physical attraction (tall, athletic)
Sense of humor
Assertiveness, Confidence
Secure and stable in his own life, caeer, finances
Not a needy character
Likes to go out alot, must like P.D.A. when appropriate, physically intimate
Not a momma's boy
No drug use or alcohol abuse
Education, quick witted, can carry a conversation
Not a cheap skate but is responsible as well
.... I guess I'm kind of picky...
2006-11-21 18:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think I would be interested in their goals, like you, and what really turns them on intellectually. I'd also be waiting to see a sense of humor, which is very alluring to a woman, and how spontaneous a person he was. I'd want him to be interested in me also. If he's all about "him", I'm done. Godloveya.
2006-11-21 18:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personal habits would be one as some men have very bad habits, the company they keep that says a lot, the manner in how they speak.
2006-11-21 18:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by lara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would want someone to be close to my own age.
Someone my height or taller.
Someone who would rather go fishing than drinking.
Someone who liked/had kids.
A person with a good sense of humor.
2006-11-21 18:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by kayboff 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say can you guys get along? Do you have anything in common? Were do you want this relationship to go or end up? Maybe its not as big a deal to them as it is to you. You ,might want to know this stuff before you jump in head first.
2006-11-21 18:16:09 · answer #7 · answered by timmy43410 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they have to b a female in my eyes or i wont date them. im not gay nor will i ever. i just usually look at how they act and what they like to do. music is a big one for me too cuz if they like the same music then that tells me alot about them
2006-11-21 18:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by jake s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
who the person is. What they care most about and how similar their values are to the other person.
2006-11-21 18:12:46 · answer #9 · answered by dm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES be concerned
2006-11-21 18:13:14 · answer #10 · answered by stanley f 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋