2006-11-21 10:07:47 · 20 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your word should be enough. (By the way - ignore the hymen business, that can break anytime and is a bad indicator of a girl's virginty.)
2006-11-21 10:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had this problem when I was young. I was a virgin until I got married at 21 years old. But my family wouldn't believe me. I offered to go to the Dr. and have the Dr. examine me but my Dad backed down& wouldn't take me to the Dr. but it didn't stop my family from accusing me. That was way back in the 1960's when all this free love stuff started. I know the truth and God knows the truth! I was a pretty girl and boys flirted with me, But that didn't make me a bad girl. My husband told my brother that I was a virgin but my brother & my still family didn't believe it. I did nothing wrong! This still hurts me to this day.
You could offer to have a Dr. exammin you. The Dr. can tell your parents that you havent been having sex, even if you hyemon got broke in an accident mine got broke when I was riding my big brothers bike and I hit a bump and I felll and hit the center bar real hard OH MY that Hurt!
Well I am now 58 years old and I still have never slept around. I am still told that I am pretty & I am divorced but I am happy bring a Grandma. And I am happy with my life the way it is.
2006-11-21 23:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The doc is not the best answer- some people are born without hymens, some lose them during exercise, and others through tampon use. Honey- there's really not alot you can do to convince them. The best thing you can do is be honest in general- and of course not turn up pregnant.
2006-11-21 18:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell them that you are not sexually active! They should be happy to hear this news.
2006-11-21 18:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your parents why they think you are sexually active. Then once you know, you can change your behavior, or be more communicative with them.
2006-11-21 18:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
... depends if you truly are... and if you use tampons...
you can go to the doctor and they can see if your membrane is torn down there... however tampon usage sometimes tears it... and after your doctor checks you out, if you give your doctor permission to tell your parents, they can (they cannot tell them anything without your consent)
But otherwise, just lie and b.s. its no big deal, at some point you'll either become sexually active if you haven't already, or they'll find out...
2006-11-21 18:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
is it true? Then thats all that matters. If you are trying to convince them and its a lie, you are asking for trouble
2006-11-21 18:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by parental unit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop acting like you are.if you hang out with boys looks obvious,if you leave your house through your window obvious,if you act older then what you really are.you could take a lie detector test.but if you are you need to be honest so your parents can get you help,we have enough kids having kids we don't need anymore,you need to prevent this please tell the truth.
2006-11-21 18:23:06 · answer #8 · answered by cool mom32 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay Home or bring your dates to your House
2006-11-21 18:10:59 · answer #9 · answered by stanley f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is just tell them Honestly.. Or go to a doctor with your mom and they'll tell you.. But the best thing that I think you should do is YOU tell them. If they want to hear it from someone I think they would want to hear it from you..
2006-11-21 18:11:52 · answer #10 · answered by *Heavenz A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋